From the very beginning, Papa has been a constant presence in my life. I’ve known him since childhood—he was always there, one of the adults in the background, aloof yet approachable. However, it wasn’t until I reached my twenties that our relationship truly began to take shape. As I started picking him up from Heathrow Airport during his visits to London, what began as simple car rides quickly evolved into meaningful conversations. Those moments marked the beginning of a relationship that would become personal, where Papa stepped into a role I had long needed in my life— that of a father figure. I lost my father at a young age, and growing up without him, I often found myself seeking guidance, someone to turn to in moments of doubt or indecision. Papa became that person for me. He was always there with advice, ready to listen and help me through the complexities of adulthood. It was during these years that I came to see him not just as my brother-in-law but as a mentor, a guide, and a man I deeply admired. If I had to choose one quality of Papa’s that has left the most lasting impact on me, it would be his integrity. In a world where honesty often feels like a rare commodity, especially among those in positions of power, Papa stood out. He lived a life of service, making decisions rooted in honesty and integrity, and he did so without ever seeking undue wealth or recognition. He wasn’t extraordinarily wealthy, but he lived within his means, and he did so with pride. His example taught me that true success isn’t measured by material wealth but by the contentment that comes from living a life of integrity. Papa’s marriage to my sister also provided me with practical lessons. As I grew older and gained more insight into their relationship, I noticed that they didn’t take themselves too seriously and approached life’s challenges with humour and lightness. This became clear tome as a key ingredient in the longevity of their marriage. One of the most priceless lessons Papa taught me was about accepting one’s lot in life. When I turned to him for advice, especially during moments of frustration, he would listen patiently and then offer this simple piece of wisdom: “That is your lot, so bear it with humility.” It was a reminder that life is full of decisions—some we make ourselves, and others that are made for us. Regardless of how we arrive at our circumstances, the key is to accept them with grace and make the best of what we have. These words have stayed with me over the years and continue to shape how I face challenges, whether in marriage, work, or any other aspect of life. Happy 90th Birthday, Papa! Thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me. Your life, your example, and your wisdomwill continue to inspire me for years to come. Wisdom Papa Style By Kojo Baidoe-Ansah 46 The Birthday Journal
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