Monica 80 Magazine

Maa, it’s your 80th birthday today. You insisted you didn’t want any celebration this year—that you wished tomark this milestone quietly. You even joked that you planned to spend the day quietly with Daddy. We’re not entirely sure what that means, but one thing we do know is this: he is celebrating you in heaven today, proudly smiling, cheering you on, and wrapping you once again in the love you shared. You also told us not tomake a magazine (“saa book nu”—just the mention of it still makes us laugh and shake our heads), even though it’s the very thing you’ve encouraged somany others to create through The Birthday Journal. And we understood—truly. But here’s the thing: when someone has spent a lifetime pouring love, care, and kindness into others, staying silent becomes impossible. So, please forgive us for gently going against your wishes—just a little. Today, we hold close the words of Proverbs 31:28–29: “Her children arise and call her blessed…” This isn’t just a verse. It’s the truth of you. It’s the story we’ve lived. It’s the blessing we rise with every single day. So, to honor the path you’ve walked and our way of saying thank you for the beautiful story that is your life, we quietly solicited birthday wishes and stories to create a journal worthy of you. When we began reaching out, expecting maybe eighty responses at most, something unexpected happened: the birthday tributes and stories kept coming… and coming. It became clear that you have touched far more lives than you probably realize. In the end, more than 200 heartfelt messages were received—a true reflection of a life shaped by generosity, dignity, grace, and a steady influence. You are the woman we see in Proverbs 31:25: “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” And because you love movies, especially your drama classics, The Birthday Journal Team let a bit of that spirit guide the theme of your “book nu”: warm, colorful, humorous, and full of life. Today, as we share this Birthday Journal with you, we are reminded of something important: give people their flowers and celebrate themwhile they are alive—so they can hear, feel, and understand the impact they’ve made. It shows themwhere they have blessed others, where they may have stumbled, and how deeply they are loved. And so, Maa, on this special day, we bring you your flowers—beautifully and lovingly gathered across these pages, filled with gratitude, admiration, and a touch of the drama you enjoy somuch, with a bit of NTER64Fanti NewTown flair. We celebrate you—not with noise or fanfare, but with joy, love, and this small memoir. And as we do, we hold on to the blessing we continue to pray over you: “May the Lord bless you and keep you; may His face shine upon you and give you peace.” (Numbers 6:24–26). And just as your favorite song says, “NeaWodeMe AbeduruNi, Wayeyi Nsa Da…,” we echo those words with full hearts. May your day be as peaceful, prayerful, and perfect as you imagined. And as we give thanks for your eighty remarkable years, we give thanks for you—the extraordinary woman who continues to bless our lives inmore ways than we can ever count. With all our love, Your beloved children. AQuiet Celebration of The Heart and Anchor of Our Lives 2 The Birthday Journal

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