I first met Grandma Yaa Yaa as a child growing up in North Suntreso. Grandma is the heart and wisdom of our family — graceful, strong, and deeply compassionate. She carries herself with quiet dignity and an unshakable faith that has guided every generation after her. Her words carry depth, her advice is always grounded in truth, and her love knows no boundaries. She has inspired me through her resilience and calm strength, showing me that real power isn’t loud — it’s steady, patient, and rooted in love. She’s taught our family the value of unity, prayer, and perseverance. Even when life wasn’t easy, she never wavered in her kindness or her belief that better days would come. Her legacy is one of grace and guidance — a woman whose wisdom still echoes in every decision we make and every dreamwe chase. One of my favourite memories of AuntieMonica is how she’s always been present — in every family gathering, every difficult moment, and every celebration. Her presence carries peace; she doesn’t just show up, she brings calmwherever she goes. I remember countless times when tension would rise, and with just a fewwords from her, everyone would soften. She has a rare gift for bringing people together and reminding us of what truly matters: love, unity, and peace. Her favourite phrase that I’ll never forget is: “Let’s have peace.” She says it so often and with such sincerity that it’s become more than a phrase — it’s a part of her identity. No matter the situation, she preaches peace, lives peace, and encourages everyone around her to do the same. She’s our peacemaker, our voice of reason, and a gentle reminder that harmony always wins over chaos. Amoment that will always stay with me was during my wedding. Despite knowing howmuch effort and time it would take, AuntieMonica was there — frommorning till evening —making sure everything went smoothly. She was present not just in body, but in spirit, supporting me every step of the way. I still remember her joining me in the car on my way to the wedding venue. That simple act meant more than words could express. In that moment, her calm presence and reassuring words gave me peace, strength, and comfort — it felt like having an angel by my side. From that day, I learned that true love and kindness are shown through presence, being there when it matters most. AuntieMonica taught me that sometimes support isn’t about grand gestures or gifts, but about showing up with a genuine heart. Her quiet strength and devotion have inspired me to be more present for the people I care about. I also remember during my elder sister’s wedding, when some family members started teasing me, asking, “So when will it be your turn?” Before I could even respond, AuntieMonica jumped right in—with that firm but loving tone only she can pull off— and said, “My daughter, don’t listen to them. You’ll marry when you’re ready. Don’t let anyone force you.” Everyone laughed, but deep down, her words carried so much truth. That moment still makes me smile —not just because it was funny, but because it showed her protective and understanding nature. She always knows when to lighten the mood while still speaking wisdom. Yes, there was a moment of misunderstanding between Auntie Monica and me when I informed her about my wedding just a day or two before it happened. She was honest with me and told me she was disappointed that I hadn’t shared it earlier. Yet, in true AuntieMonica fashion, she chose love over offence. Despite her disappointment, she showed up fully — frommorning till evening, supporting me with warmth, care, and grace. That moment taught me a profound lesson about maturity, forgiveness, and unconditional love. It showed me that real family doesn’t hold grudges; they show up anyway. AuntieMonica reminded me that love isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence. AuntieMonica is kind-hearted, loving, and compassionate. I will always be grateful for her wisdom, counsel, and kindness. Happy 80th Birthday, Grandma Yaa Yaa! You are a rare gem, a woman whose kindness, strength, and wisdom continue to bless everyone around you. Through every season of life, you’ve shown what it means to love deeply, forgive easily, and live peacefully. You’ve been a steady hand and a calm voice in our family, always present, always guiding, always radiating grace. As you celebrate this beautiful milestone, I just want to thank you for every prayer, every word of encouragement, and every quiet act of love you’ve shown me. You’ve touched my life in ways youmay never fully know. May God continue to bless you with good health, joy, and peace that never fades. May your days be filled with laughter, your nights with rest, and your heart with the same love you’ve so freely given to others. You are deeply loved and forever cherished. Mika Naa Odaakor Corbby-Gold The Birthday Journal 165
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