Dear Grandma, You were the first person to teach me so many things—how to make fried rice, how to bathe properly, how to organize my drawers. You were also the first to pray with me, to place rosaries in my hands every Sunday, and to showme what it means to live with faith and love. What I admire most about you is your deep compassion and your gift for bringing people together with warmth and care. I’ve always looked up to your strong relationship with God, your incredible cooking, and of course, your effortless sense of style. Growing up, some of my fondest memories involve you. I remember the excitement I felt walking out of elementary school and seeing you sitting in the front seat of Mommy’s car—it was always the best surprise. I loved helping you set up Adom TV every afternoon so you could watch your Indian dramas, and I’ll never forget our walks to the playground at the North Haledon house. I especially loved climbing the rocks near the old house and swinging on the swings while you watched. You’ve shaped me into the woman I am today with your wisdom, grace, and example. Thank you for teaching me to be responsible, classy, and respectful (and for always reminding me to wear longer shorts!). Your laughter and sense of humor are contagious—Sean and I always look forward to being with you and soaking in your joy. What I’mmost proud of is your motherhood. You’ve been the model of what every mother should be—loving, nurturing, and strong. You’ve inspired me to someday raise children who are just as kind, smart, and grounded in faith as the family you’ve built. Since I was a baby, you’ve been a constant role model in my life. Your words and advice have guided me from NorthHaledon to college, and I carry your lessons with me in everything I do. Everyone around you loves and admires you—and I hope to grow into someone just as beloved. Thank you for being such a beautiful and steady presence in my life. Medasi paaaa. Happy Birthday!!! With all my love, Abi The Birthday Journal 153
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