I’ve known AuntieMonica since childhood. Though technically my cousin, she has always been everyone’s auntie — present, dependable, and ever ready to help. When my children were growing up, she visited us in the UK, and the whole house seemed to calm the moment she arrived. Whether the children were crying or running around, her gentle presence settled everything. One of her funniest habits was teasing the children with her playful phrase, “Tiger in your tummy.” She said it with such humour that they never forgot it — and often teased her back, insisting she must have a tiger of her own. She is a peaceful woman who feels happiest when everyone is getting along. She laughs easily, talks with joy, and carries a cheerful spirit that fills any home. We’ve never had a misunderstanding. She encourages gently, treats people fairly, and approaches everything with kindness. Her support has been unwavering. When my husband died, she stood by us. When my sister passed, she travelled fromGhana just to be with me. I remain deeply grateful for her constant presence. She loves gardening and good food, always urging us to try new dishes, not just the traditional ones — one of her many ways of bringing joy into ordinary moments. As she turns 80, my wish is simple: that she continues to grow gracefully, surrounded by peace, love, and everything that brings her joy. And yes — I have six children, including a set of twins, and now fifteen grandchildren. A blessing indeed, one that AuntieMonica has shared in with love over the years. Ataa It’s such a joy to celebrateMonica Asante today — a truly remarkable woman. I still remember the first time I met Monica. I was newly married, didn’t know anyone in the family, and honestly felt a little lost. But Monica, my sister-in-law, welcomed me instantly. She made me feel at home and treated me like I’d always belonged. From that moment on, she has been a steady, loving presence in my life. Monica gives so freely — her love, her time, her advice, her laughter… and, of course, her incredible cooking! She’s strong, kind, and always ready to roll up her sleeves and get things done. I’ve always admired her resilience and courage. After her husband Yaw passed away, Monica took on the mantle of completing their family home while raising and educating her four children to a very high level. She faced enormous challenges but never wavered — that is the kind of strength that defines her. I’ll never forget one of the hardest times in my life —when my husband Kwame passed away. Monica had just lost Yaw barely a fewmonths earlier, yet she put her own grief aside to support me. That is whoMonica is — compassionate, strong, and always thinking of others. Over the years, Monica has become so much more than family to me. She’s my mother, my sister, my friend — all rolled into one. Whenever I visit Kumasi, she’s always there with open arms, a warm smile, and that special touch that makes everyone feel at home. Even at 80, Monica still has that sparkle — the warmth, the laughter, the joy that fills every room she enters. Happy 80th birthday, Monica. We love you so much and are so grateful for everything you do, and for the incredible person you are. May God continue to richly bless you. Mrs. Leticia Asante 136 The Birthday Journal
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