Between the ages of 11 and 20, life unfolded with a rhythm that was both tender and transformative. These were the years where innocence met curiosity, and girlhood blossomed into early womanhood. Though the memories are layered and some edges blur with time, the essence of that period still glows brightly in my heart. It was a time of discovering my voice, forming lasting bonds, and grounding myself in values that would become the bedrock of my life. My journey through adolescence began at Accra Girls’ Secondary School, a vibrant space of laughter, rules, friendships, and self-discovery. It wasn’t just an academic setting; it was a social crucible that moulded much of who I am today. Here, I formed some of my first deep friendships—with Evelyn Animwaa, Evelyn (Rebel), Rebecca Amarteifio, Ekua Jonfiah, and Theresa. These girls were more than classmates; theyweremy circle, my sisters. Together, we mapped out our holidays like little architects of joy—whether it was a trip to braid our hair or just visiting each other and talking about our dreams. Among us, Rebecca Amarteifio stood out with a unique sense of loyalty and care. As a day student, she became my lifeline between school and home, making sure all my provisions and personal needs sent by my parents got to me safely and in a timely manner. Her role wasn’t asked for—it was given out of pure friendship. Her consistency and dependability quietly reinforced the values of responsibility, kindness, and service in our sisterhood. After Accra Girls’ came Swedru Secondary School—my first real academic and social experience away from Accra and everything familiar. Being outside the city shaped me in new ways. Swedru was quieter but deeper, a place of introspection, maturity, and a different kind of connection. Here, I found a new tribe—Faustina Larbi, Shirley Quaicoo, and Juliet, of blessed memory. These young women carried me through that phase with love, sacrifice, and unwavering friendship. Amid all these adventures and learning moments, family remained my anchor. “ 12 The Birthday Journal
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