If I had to describe what becoming means to me at this stage of my life, the word would be consistent. That’s what I’m striving towards — consistency in everything I do. I’ve realised that I have a tendency to start many things with enthusiasm — great ideas, new projects, exciting opportunities—but sometimes I move on too quickly. I dipmy hands into different pockets and then let them go before seeing the full result. What I’m learning now is that when something is good, you keep doing it. You build on it. You stay the course. Because consistency brings growth, stability, and better outcomes. If there’s one thing I want to be more consistent in, it’s learning and growing. I’ve discovered that every new skill adds a new layer to who I am. When I started my current job, everything was unfamiliar — the systems, the structure, the pace. But I stayed focused, determined to learn. And before long, I’d not only mastered it but began teaching others. That reminded me how powerful consistency can be. Interestingly, when I was younger, I never had a fixed dream of what I wanted to “become.” I just wanted to be good at whatever I did. My career path wasn’t planned— I worked in banking for 23 years, almost by chance, after dating someone in that field. Later, I transitioned into employability, helping people back intowork. It’s not something I envisioned, but it feels deeply rewarding. Helping someone regain confidence, rebuild their career, and see hope again — it fills me with joy. Still, my heart beats for fashion and design. From college days, I’ve loved fabrics, textures, and colours. Friends and family have always noticed — commenting on my style, the way I decorate my home, how I put things together. Those compliments slowly made me realise that I might have a real flair for it. Interior design, in particular, excites me — the ability to transform a space, to make someone feel joy through beauty and colour. I’ve decided to explore short courses to see how I can develop it further, even if only as a passion project for now. But I’ll admit, consistency is not always easy. Life has its challenges. I’m a full-time carer for my mother, who’s 72, while juggling work and trying to make time for myself. Yet, what keeps me going is love — the love I have for my mum and the joy I see when she smiles. It’s an honour to care for her, and I truly believe it’s a blessing to be able to give back. I also draw strength from my circle of friends. Their support keeps me grounded and inspired. Whether it’s through caring for my mum, helping someone find employment, or simply bringing colour into people’s lives through design and style — those moments remind me why consistency matters. Because consistency isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up again and again, even when life pulls you in different directions. Becoming Consistent — the quiet strength of showing up, growing, and loving through every season. Becoming Consistent Consistency is the quiet strength that turns effort into achievement. 46 The Birthday Journal
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