When I recall the memories spent with my uncle (Togbui), I always cherish those days in Takoradi with him and his family during my school vacations. Togbui, I remember your large poultry farm, where fowls often laid double-yolked eggs, not less than 20 crates daily. Visiting your farm was always a delight, watching how the eggs were packed in crates with great care. Your encouragement to move around freely was always a joy to me. My visits continued until you relocated to Tema, marking another cherished moment. During those times, you would often visit my mother (your late sister, Mary), and the two of you would engage in conversations for hours. I recall your requests for Eworkple with fried fish and hot pepper, followed by a casual, “Dede, kindly buy me a very chilled club first.” How I wish the clock could turn backward for those moments to come again, allowing you to continue your visits, Togbui. But as the saying goes, we can’t turn back the hands of time, so we learn to cherish life as it comes on a daily basis. On this special day of yours, I am happy and blessed to still have you around. My prayer is to have you around more for us to witness more birthdays, in good health and strength, full of God’s blessings. Your niece, Dede Dear Uncle, We wish you an extremely happy and joyous birthday! Today, we celebrate the amazing person you are and the incredible life you have led. As you light another candle on your great day, we want you to know how much you mean to us. Our family beautifully appreciates your love, kindness, and wisdom. Our hearts are always glad about the lessons you’ve taught us and the jokes you sometimes shared with us. You are a very special person, especially to me. I express my heartfelt gratitude for your acceptance, welcoming me into your home, and adding to my name SELA BOY! May this day be warm and full of affection from family and friends. We pause to consider the love you have left in our hearts and the joy you have contributed to people around you. To all of us, your presence is a gift from God. Remember that you are loved every day of the year as you commemorate this milestone. We once again appreciate you for being a loving, guiding, and inspirational person. Sending you lots of love and warmest wishes for an amazing year ahead. Happy and glorious Birthday! Happy, happy birthday to you, Uncle. I wish you all the best that you ever wish for yourself. With love from Sela Boy and Sisters Dear Uncle Ralph, As you celebrate your remarkable 90 years, I find myself reminiscing about the incredible moments we’ve shared throughout the years. Allow me to take you on a journey back to the vibrant days of my secondary school escapades – a time when weekends or holidays meant a pilgrimage to your door in Tema or Takoradi. One memory that always makes me smile happened on the Meridian rooftop. I left home stealthily, and my buddies were hanging out when, surprise, you showed up with your crew. You looked at me, grinned, and said, “Hey, Big Joe, what are you doing here? You’re supposed to be at home asleep.” Classic Uncle Ralph move! You made sure we had a great time with drinks and laughter. Even when you moved to Takoradi, I kept visiting you from Koforidua. One fun time was when I brought a friend to your beach bungalow. It was like a big party with important people like the late Commander Akpalu. Picture this – a beach party with chicken and kebabs. So much fun! During that party, my friend, amazed, said, “Wow, this is the life!” He noted that education was the key to enjoying such moments. This idea stuck with my friend, and he ended up getting a Ph.D. and lives in Finland. We still laugh about how those times in Takoradi shaped his life. Uncle Ralph, you’ve always been simple and honest in everything you do. Even when things didn’t go well, you bounced back, showing us how strong you are. On your 90th birthday, I celebrate not just the years but all the happiness and wisdom you’ve shared. Big Joe 39 The Birthday Journal
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