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Celebrating 60Years of Grace My memory of BB goes back to the days when I served as Parochial Vicar at Christ the King Catholic Church from 2004 to 2007. She and her husband, Dr. Francis Ofei, were faithful attendees of the Sunday eveningMass. Anyone who knows them can testify to how they come to church — quietly and gracefully, like the biblical Nicodemus who sought the Lord in the stillness of the night (John 3:1–2). What first caught my attention was when BB began to play the organ during the eveningMass. It was this gift of music — offered so humbly and beautifully — that drewme closer to her. Her playing was not just skillful, but prayerful, lifting hearts toward heaven. During this period, I was occasionally invited to Fidelity Bank, where BB served as Head of Human Resource Department, to give exhortations during theirMonday morning devotions. There, too, she sometimes played the organ. After the devotion, we would spend a fewmoments in her office chatting about faith, life, and service. Whether at church or at work, BB— though reserved — shone brightly through her gift and spirit of quiet excellence. When I later became the Pastor of St. James Catholic Church, Osu, I faced a pastoral challenge: I needed a role model for the young girls in the youth choir — someone who could inspire them spiritually and morally, and work harmoniously with the choir master and organist. Naturally, I thought of BB. Despite her busy schedule, she gladly accepted my invitation. I still remember her gentle but firm response: “Fr. Dan, how can I say no to you?” Her presence impacted the group greatly. She supported the youth choir not only with her music but also with her mentorship and even financial contribution when needed. When it came to the physical development of the parish, BB’s generosity again spoke volumes. She fully sponsored the construction of the St. James Grotto — a serene space for prayer and devotion. And through her influence, her husband, Dr. Francis, graciously co-chaired one of our church harvests, contributing generously even when he couldn’t attend in person. BB also offered her professional expertise by chairing the Church’s Asset Committee. Under her leadership, the committee ensured the protection of church property and promoted prudent management of resources through clear rental policies and staff oversight. Her contribution, combined with faith and professionalism, was remarkable. About nine months before her 60th birthday, BB reached out to me to discuss how she could spiritually prepare herself for this milestone. One of her goals was to deepen her knowledge of Scripture. In view of this, I assigned her specific books of the Bible to study. She would read each one, reflect, and then return with questions and insights for discussion before moving on to the next. Through this exercise, she prayerfully completed several books — including Tobit, Ecclesiastes, Ruth, Luke, Philippians, and 1 Samuel, among others. It was deeply inspiring to witness her thirst for God’sWord and her desire to grow in grace and wisdom. Indeed, she embodied the words of Psalm 119:105: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” As we celebrate BB’s 60th birthday — sixty years of divine favor, wisdom, and service —we echo the words of Scripture: “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turnHis face toward you and give you peace.” —Numbers 6:24–26 BB, your life is a testimony to the Psalmist’s words: “Those who look to Him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame” (Psalm34:5). You have been a beacon of faith, humility, and excellence in all spheres of life. May this milestone birthday mark not only the celebration of years but the recognition of a legacy — a life poured out in love and service to God and humanity. Happy 60th Birthday, BB! May your days continue to overflowwith the joy of the Lord, who has been your strength. Fr. Daniel Tettedji 4 The Birthday Journal
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My BB, From the very first moment our paths crossed, my life changed. I was the best man and you were the maid of honour at a wedding, and even before the wedding day arrived, my mind was already made up. Two days before the ceremony, at the rehearsal, I knewwithout doubt that you were the one. We got together immediately after the wedding, and as the saying goes, the rest is history. I still thank my God and my stars for that wedding of Canaan where our story began. You are a visionary in every sense of the word—professionally and at home. I am immensely proud of what you have achieved over the years. Watching you build and nurture small, medium, and especially large start-up companies has been extraordinary. Many of these organisations are still in operation today, continuing to use your ideas, systems, and direction. I genuinely doubt there are many people who could have done what you have done with such consistency and impact. Beyond that, your love for mentoring and coaching young school leavers and college graduates searching for job opportunities speaks volumes about your heart. Many of these young people have become part of our extended family, and that legacy of care and guidance is priceless. At home, you are the pacemaker—simple and short. Almost every activity starts with you in one way or another. Your approach to work continues to amaze me. I honestly don’t knowmany people who are as thorough and committed as you are. You will spend an entire night reviewing work you already know inside out, even when you are chairing the meeting yourself, just to be sure no stone is left unturned. I often wonder howmuch energy will still be left in the tank, but you somehow do this effortlessly—even three days in a row if needed. What drives you is simple and pure: the need to help, to provide clarity, to show how things can be done effectively, and to solve HR-related problems for organisations that reach out to you. Outside of work, you have several interests that make you tick. You love to cook, and you do so wholeheartedly—even when we have many guests, you insist on doing everything yourself. Music runs deep in you; you love it in all its forms, you love to dance, and above all, you love playing music in the Catholic Church and supporting the choir. Gardening is not just a pastime for you—it is something you take seriously, maintaining sheds dedicated to cultivating specific plant species. Your love for children is endless; you care for them naturally and instinctively, and I have often thought you would have made an exceptional nursery teacher. You once talked a lot about tennis—though I never saw you play it—and now I somehow knowmore about international tennis than you do. Golf, which I introduced you to, has clearly stolen your heart. Because we can sometimes play together, I selfishly discouraged you from taking up other sports I couldn’t share with you, and now I can see howmuch you truly enjoy it. Dogs have always been part of our home since we started life together. We both love them, but you are the one who finds the vets, manages the groomers, oversees their care, and worries about what they eat. There is always one dog sleeping under the window of whichever room you are in—whether you are working, resting, or asleep. That alone says so much about your nurturing spirit. In family life, you have been exceptional. You were more a daughter than a daughter-in-law to my mother, and you relate so naturally with everyone in both your family and mine that it makes it easy for me to do the same. You have always balanced work and family beautifully. I have never seen you struggle to choose between the two or sacrifice one for the other. For you, work is work, and family time is family time—each honoured fully and intentionally. Your upbringing in Tema and the nurturing you received during your seven years at Aburi Girls laid strong foundations for the woman you are today. Those foundations have sustained us for nearly 40 years since we first met and 36 years since we tied the knot. Because of them, we have consistently seen eye to eye on almost everything—religion, politics, people’s behaviour and attitudes, relationships, raising children, and even howwe handle our own emotions. Your legacy is already firmly established. Your contributions to your profession—through institutional development, organisational growth, and the many individuals you have recruited, mentored, and coached—will endure for many years. Your impact has been recognised through numerous appointments and awards, and rightly so. Beyond all of that, you are a family unifier. You warm every space you enter with your energy, your presence, and your generosity of spirit. I am certain that you would like to be remembered in these ways. At least I will. With all my love, Always. Ramen 8 The Birthday Journal
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MyMother When I was six years old, I was asked to write a school composition titled “MyMother.” I knew your name. I had seen it written many times. But it was long, and at that age I couldn’t quite remember how to spell it. So you taught me a trick. You broke your name down and said, “Think of it like beat rice.” Beatrice. It worked. And it stuck. Today, I feel honoured and proud to write another composition about you—this time not just about your name, but about the many tricks, lessons, and quiet demonstrations that have shaped who I am. That moment in Class One is my earliest clear recollection of your name. More broadly, I think I’ve always known you were my mother, but I can’t pinpoint an exact moment when it suddenly clicked. I must have been about six or seven years old. From a very early age, you spoke to me as someone who could understand. I don’t remember you ever baby-talking me. One moment that stands out is when I learned the word considerate. In a shop once, after seeing other children throw tantrums, I tried the same tactic. You stopped me and said, “Please, let’s be considerate.” I didn’t knowwhat the word meant, so you took the time to explain it. Looking back, I realise you distracted me from the tantrumwhile teaching me a lesson. I learned early that shouting and rolling on the floor wouldn’t get me what I wanted. Every time I have the opportunity to be considerate, I remember that lesson frommany years ago and live by that word. Growing up, you were my study partner. You didn’t just help with homework— you recreated the entire school experience at home. You would go through the material with me, set your own questions, leave the room like a teacher, then return to see if I had filled in the gaps. Every subject. Every time. Beyond academics, you taught me life skills. Cooking, for one. You are the best cook in the world. You probably should have opened a restaurant by now, but your passions lie elsewhere. Even today, you are constantly teaching me little tips, tweaks, and improvements. Some of the most important lessons you’ve taught me, however, are about navigating life itself: pushing through, never giving up, believing in yourself, giving people the benefit of the doubt, recalibrating when life becomes unpredictable, and learning to adapt. One defining lesson came in primary school, when I was very much into basketball. I had been selected to play in a school game, only to be removed later—most likely because I wasn’t tall enough. You didn’t accept that as the end of the story. You encouraged me to speak to the PE teacher and reminded me that if I believed I had the skill, I should pursue it. You were ready to stand by me if needed. I spoke to him. You spoke to him. I ended up playing in the game. I don’t even remember if we won, but I remember the lesson clearly: don’t give up just because someone suddenly decides you’re no longer qualified. Music has always been part of our home. Yes, I play the piano. I had a teacher, but you were someone I really looked up to. You play very well and also compose your own music. At home, you would play the piano, Dad would play the guitar, and I would attempt the harmonica. That was something we often did on Sundays. Those moments stay with me. There are so many wonderful memories, far too many to recount. You and Dad also used to take me on trips out of Accra, which I loved. You always prepared sandwiches—usually tuna or chicken—and packed drinks in a cooler. You preferred packing our own food rather than making frequent stops. I now recognize the love and forethought (as well as effort) that goes into making these trips enjoyable and seemingly easy, and I’m thankful for these shared moments. There was always good music in the car, and we would spend time at the beach taking in the sights and sounds. Those trips were really special. You rarely raise your voice—it’s a real rarity. You are generous with your time, your knowledge, and your resources. If you can help someone, you will. Sometimes I joke that you give so much of yourself that there isn’t always enough left just for you. You are like this everywhere—at home, with extended family, and at work. When you are stressed, you communicate it clearly. You say, “I have a lot on my plate right now.” That taught me not to bottle things up and to communicate honestly, instead of letting stress spill over onto others without explanation. What makes you happy is simple and beautiful. You love music—concerts and good music in a lovely setting. You love good food, the outdoors, plants, and greenery, especially orchids. Anything horticulture-related delights you. I The Birthday Journal 11
remember our visit to KewGardens in England; you absolutely loved it. You also love playing the organ at church. You used to do it more frequently before grandma duties took over, and you especially enjoyed playing during evening mass and with the youth choir. You love your family. You show up as much and in as many ways as you can for your siblings, and it’s truly admirable. I’ve always admired your career journey—from Oando, Westel, Fidelity Bank, and then founding Aspire Plus Limited. Your leadership and the way you support others earned you respect everywhere—I still remember the surprise farewell Fidelity staff organised for you. You’ve shown it’s possible to navigate challenges with grace, turn expertise into guidance, and take the leap from employee to entrepreneur with confidence. I’m so proud of everything you’ve built and how you’ve led with both skill and heart. You have also faced challenges. Recently, you moved your practice to a space where you could combine your HR and customer care work with your love for gardening. Like many building projects in Ghana, working with artisans came with its challenges. At each point, you worked through the issues, took breaks when things became overwhelming, and gradually created a structure you are happy with. It is still evolving, but you enjoy it. Because you give so much, it saddens you when your efforts aren’t reciprocated or appreciated. You don’t expect much, but when the response falls short, it hurts. You were very close to your parents. Grandpa passed away early, and Grandma passed about six years ago, and I can tell that birthdays and anniversaries connected to them are sometimes difficult days for you. No matter what, however, you always press on, and you show up. And perhaps that’s the thread that runs through everything—presence. Whether as a teacher, an advocate, a listener, a guide, or now a grandmother, you have always shown up. All those years ago, you taught me how to spell your name by breaking it down into something simple. Over time, you have done the same with life—breaking it down into lessons I could understand, carry, and live by. And this composition, all these years later, is proof that your lessons worked. And today, as we celebrate you, I want to say: Happy 60th Birthday, Mum! I wish you everything you wish for yourself and more—God’s choicest blessings, peace, good health, vitality, calm joy, unending happiness, and success in all that you do. And yes, I know you’re hoping for more grandchildren—but one at a time! Love, Ewuradjoa 12 The Birthday Journal
Happy 60th birthday to my bonus mother. If the world had more people like you, it would be a much better place. I’ve had the pleasure of working with Auntie BB long before Adjoa, and I got married. Her personality at work is the same as it is outside of it; she is always ready to give advice and lend a hand without asking for or expecting anything in return. When Adjoa and I were going through marriage counseling, issues with in-laws were a recurring topic. “This mother-in-law did this”, and “this mother-in-law did that”; it wasn’t a good advertisement for in-laws, and was especially discouraging when you’re just starting the process. God being so good, I had no such worries and still cannot say I can identify with those sentiments. I have the best in-laws, and they have treated me like a son from the very beginning. When we had Aletheia, Auntie BB completely adjusted her work schedule to help us care for her so we wouldn’t have to rely on a stranger when we were away at work. She continues to be supportive of our family and is a presence we are deeply grateful for. She gives so much of herself to everyone. To me, she embodies Philippians 2:5-7: “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.” Auntie BB - to know you is to love you! I wish you only the best in the years ahead, and I look forward to sharing more of those moments with you. Raul The Birthday Journal 13
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BB!!! What an honour it is to write to you as you celebrate your 60th birthday. I love you dearly and thank God that you are my sister. One of my most cherished childhood memories is celebrating our birthdays together. Although we are a little over two years apart, and because we were both born in December, Mum and Dad planned our birthday parties in the same month. I truly cherished those moments, especially when we wore similar outfits. As a child, you were known for your love of music and your enthusiasm for botany. And I must say, you were not a shy girl while growing up. During our days of piano lessons, you took your practice very seriously and were never shy about playing at events such as the Christmas sing-along or Sunday church services, often playing for our late dad. Today, you continue to share your musical talent with your local church. Since your adolescence, your love for plants and gardening has come a long way. You always make sureMum’s flower pots on the front porch have enough water to grow and even clean the dirt off large, leafy plants to keep them shiny and fresh. Today, you operate your own garden centre, and your passion for botany remains as strong as ever. There are many moments when you have made me proud, but one that stands out is your deep love and commitment to supporting me when our belovedMum fell ill. Along with the rest of our siblings, you comforted me and represented me until I arrived in Tema. Thank you, BB, for your continuous support and leadership. You continueMum’s legacy of entrepreneurship. You are the CEO of Aspire Plus Ltd. and have over 20 years’ experience as anHR practitioner. In addition to running your HR business, you serve on several boards as a co-chair in Accra. In 2023, you were named one of the Top 100GhanaWomen Board Directors. I am so proud of you, sister—go, BB! Finally, I admire you for your parenting skills, which have been renewed after 34 years as you became a grandmother last year. You effortlessly juggle being a grandmother, owning a business, serving on boards, gardening, and caring for four dogs at home. I end with one of your favourite quotes: “Give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16–18). On your 60th birthday, Look back on your life and smile. You’ve lived it to the fullest, each moment worthwhile. Then gaze forward at the years still to come, with endless possibilities and even more wisdom. Like good wine that mellows with time, you are proof that this is true. Sixty never looked so good. So proud of you, BB. Happy 60th Birthday. Love, Maame 16 The Birthday Journal
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Dear BB, I knew from the very start that putting a fewwords together for this journal was not going to be easy. I felt that bringing our siblings together, along with special friends and family who have known you over the years, would be the best way to tell a beautiful story—in words and pictures—of my dear second older sister. Coordinating this journal has been such a privilege. What has warmed my heart most is knowing that this is one thing we siblings confidently put together without looking over our shoulders and wondering, “What would BB do differently?” Because it was a surprise, you had to be kept completely in the dark. Thank you, my dear brothers and sisters, for making it possible. BB, you are everything one could hope for in a sister, wife, mum, grandma, work colleague, and spiritual buddy. You are that special guardian angel—present in both good and difficult times. Your leadership is exceptional, and you have a remarkable way of problem-solving and coordinating everything with grace and clarity. As the third youngest teenage girl, I had to earn my place by being “good” so I could tag along to parties that Maame and you were invited to. Some of those invitations were, shall we say, somewhat “fictitious.” If you sensed anything amiss, you would opt out—much to our horror—because we all knew our parents would not allow Maame and me to go if you didn’t. We would beg, plead, and promise you everything, but you would not budge. The result was often an early night for all of us. That story sums you up so well. From a young age, you were proper, diligent, and conscientious, always determined to do things the right way and to see them through properly. I used to take pride in some of the things I thought I did well, but the truth is, you did them ten times better. We all learned to play the piano, but you went all the way to Grade 8 of the London Associated Board of the Royal School of Music—the highest level. I reached Grade 5, and sadly, our piano teacher became unwell, so I gladly quit at that point, knowing it would only get harder. You, on the other hand, carried on, playing at Aburi Girls until sixth form, and later at Masses at Christ the King and St James Parish. I did my fair share of recitals at Holy Child School up to Form4, but I must confess that formation dancing to Shalamar and Kool & the Gang felt far more exciting than piano recitals. I preferred applause from the Augusco and Kwabotwe boys to polite clapping in an assembly hall. It is with some sadness that even my closest friends, who usually give me credit for doing things well, change their tune once they meet you. One friend once said, “Aba, you are fine and classy, but your sister BB is the personification of class and style.” There is, however, one thing I do better than you. In your world, black is black and white is white. In my world, white can become many things if it helps me out of trouble. I’ll say no more on that. I could go on endlessly about what youmean to me. The love I have for you is deep, and I am so proud and honoured to have you as my sister. Reading what our other siblings have written has been a joy—we all see you in the same way: humble, kind, selfless, loving, caring, detailed, and deeply rooted in your love for God. You are truly phenomenal. As you celebrate your 60th birthday, I wish you every good thing. May today be filled with joy and the years ahead with happiness and fulfilment. Mum and Dad will surely be smiling in heaven, knowing they raised a unique secondborn child who has grown into a remarkable 60-year-old wife, mother, grandmother, and highly respected CEO of Aspire Plus Limited. May God continue to bless you in every area of your life, for you are truly and highly favoured. Happy Birthday, BB. With much love and every blessing, Abameryah 18 The Birthday Journal
BB, what lovely memories we share as children. I smile as I recall how our friendship began. Moving fromSaint Anthony’s in Accra to Tema Parents Association School was a big step for me. Within weeks, a move to Class 3—Mrs Simpson’s class—introduced me to wonderful classmates and began a friendship that lasted fromClass 3 to Class 7. You were always on my birthday guest list at Site 21. Mum and I often visited your home at Site 18, and sometimes I never wanted to leave. Eventually, Mum allowed me to stay with your family before the Common Entrance exams. Those were some of the happiest days of my childhood. I remember the warmth of your home—sharing a big girls’ room, chatting ourselves to sleep, delicious lunches planned by Auntie Theresa, and afternoons filled with laughter. We studied together, watched you play the piano, enjoyed visits from your grandmother with farm produce, and baked scones on rainy days. Your home was full of joy, and you inspired me to try piano lessons too. Though we lost touch after secondary school, our reunion in 2012 felt as though no time had passed. BB, you have remained a wonderful friend—kind, genuine, humorous, and generous with your time. Here’s wishing you a fabulous 60th birthday and many more happy years ahead. Lots of love, Rosetta The Birthday Journal 19
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EkuaMenlekyi! Quiet, firm, simple, and diligent. From the days of the Tema parents toMrs TuffMensah, your piano mistress; fromAburi Girls to the University of Cape Coast; fromUni-Petrol, Westel, and Fidelity to Aspire Plus—you have carried these qualities throughout. I have had the opportunity to be close to you, and I say this with confidence. I had the honour, together with Daddy, to pick you up fromAburi Girls after sixth form. You had packed all your things—and if I may borrow a phrase you understand— alphabetically. I had the same honour again, this time alone, to pick you up fromCape Vars after your last paper. You did not want to spend even an extra hour after your final paper, with your things packed in exactly the same way as when you left Aburi Girls You continued in the same manner when youmoved to Korle Bu and then toMango Lane, Community 20. Woe betide anyone you invited to help you clean up. Nets checked (“neatibertically”). Floor checked (“neatibertically”). Kitchen sink and others (“antigermsbertically”). You always kept a small notebook—more than CIA data backup—for everything. It contained details of everything one could imagine and was your constant reference point. You are more than a carpenter, mason, plumber, or tiler—you name it. You always find out every detail of a particular trade and even lecture the professionals on their own work . You have a microscopic eye in the kitchen. On one occasion, I brought you some foodstuffs from our farm. Being you, you called me early the next morning: “Ben, medaase pii. Nyame nhyira wo,” but then asked whether there was any galamsey activity in the farm area and the distance between the farm and the location. That is you, BB. You can cook—COOK—sweet and delicious meals, and you do so for every family gathering. With all this precision and discipline, it is no surprise that Aspire Plus has come this far. Quiet, firm, simple, and diligent BB. I am happy you are my sister. With all of this, you play your role very well in the house of God. And though we share the same middle name, Menlekyi, I am glad I chose to name my daughter after yours and not mine at all. God bless you, BB. Papa Menlekyi 22 The Birthday Journal
Quite a difficult task, trying to give a memoir of your personality, Beatrice Bridget Ofei—so calculated in your thoughts and actions. Growing up with your prim and proper attitude, we never had the usual sibling squabbles. You were either in school or, when at home, behind your favourite piano, filling the house with beautiful hymns. You also had a passion for cooking, aided byMummy’s recipe books, which we all loved. I was blessed to have you assist me in running our family business around 2014, where we built the right structures with your management expertise. The business grew stronger and became the yardstick for our fellow distributors, while also making our mother proud. You have impacted our lives in many ways. As we celebrate you on this special day, I wish you God’s abundant blessings and grace. With love,. Naya (Paul Anaman) Happy 60th, my amazing sister! I’m so excited to celebrate this special day with you. The experiences we have shared and the guidance you have given me are treasures I hold close to my heart. You have always been the peacemaker in our family—the calm in the storm and the one we all turn to when things get tough. Your strength inspires me, your kindness holds us together, and your wisdommakes you our go-to person for just about everything. I feel incredibly blessed to have you not only as a sister but also as a friend. Wishing you all the joy, love, and laughter you deserve in this beautiful new chapter. Love you endlessly. May God bless you today and always. Regards, Sammy The Birthday Journal 23
My earliest memories of you, BB, are from the playground at Tema Parents’ School in Community 2—especially our time on the swings. Although we went to different schools afterwards—I toWesley Girls and you to Aburi Girls—our friendship grew even closer. The walks between the Anamans’ home at Site 18 and the Kweis’ home at Site 21 became a regular part of our lives. I became “Sister Eunice” to all of your siblings, and your mum, Auntie Theresa, was one of my favourite aunties. We attended vacation classes together at Temasco before our O-Level examinations, and I will never forget the day my father came home to break the news of our results. We waited nervously at my parents’ house, and of course, we both did very well and went on to our respective Sixth Forms. After A-Levels, I moved to the US for my studies. I really missed you during those years of separation and even remember not being able to be there when youmarried Francis Ofei. When I returned to Ghana, it was a joy to discover that we lived in the same neighbourhood again, within walking distance of each other. Over the years, work, family, and life have limited our time together, but you have remained one of my closest friends. It is always easy to pick up where we left off, and sharing each other’s milestone events has always been a must. You have been a tremendous help to me professionally, supporting me when I set up an independent power-producing company several years ago, offering your HR expertise through Aspire Plus. You even personally edited my entire CV, gratis. You have always been the friend I wanted to be when I grew up —always composed, with a beautiful home, an accomplished cook, a unifier in your family, and a wonderful dresser. I continue to be so proud of you and all your professional accomplishments. As you turn 60, just a couple of months after I did, I wish you the very best as you navigate this new stage of life. I know that the two skinny girls who once ran around the playground at Tema Parents will continue to be great friends—and hopefully slow down enough to spend more time together, maybe even finally take up that Pilates class we’ve been talking about for months. Happy birthday, BB. I wish you love, peace, continued accomplishments, good health, and wealth by the grace of God. Enjoy your special day. I leave you with the words of Isaiah 46:3–4 to encourage you and remind you that you are deeply loved. Eunice Biritwum 24 The Birthday Journal
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BB@60 Mrs Beatrice Bridget Ofei, Née Anaman, a.k.a. BB, my dearest and special niece, I am indeed privileged to be alive and present at this special milestone celebration of your 60 years. BB, I want to take this opportunity to let you knowwho you are. You are respectful, humble, modest, a mother, sincere, kind, a leader, noble, grateful, a gem, hardworking, beautiful inside and out, an award winner, and blessed. Of all the qualities listed above, I can give instances in which you have portrayed them. You have been kind to me, taking care of me whenever I was hospitalised, showering me with gifts, and even employing a gardener to take care of my flowers. BB, an entrepreneur as you are, you have been able to establish your own business. We—your Anaman, Morrison, andHogan family members—are proud of you. You showed your gratitude to me when I presented your wedding veil to you. You shouted, “Auntie, thank you very much; you have really made my day.” It still rings a bell. BB, you were shy and timid to a fault when you were about ten years old. I am sure you have not forgotten your first encounter with the people at the Kingsway stores in Accra, and worst of all, seeing the crowd at the car park at Mokola. I adopted a way to help you overcome your timidity by taking you shopping regularly, visiting Dan’s Paradise for ice cream and milkshakes at weekends, and organising children’s parties for you and your siblings. When I urged Daddy to purchase a piano frommy Japanese colleague at work for you, little did I know that the seriousness with which you approached your piano lessons would help you become a proficient pianist, even playing at church. BB, all these and other qualities have contributed to your achievements. We are indeed proud of you. Bravo, my special niece! I love you. Auntie Regina As you celebrate sixty remarkable years, we reflect on the gift of you. Your kindness has been a gentle anchor, your wisdom a guiding light, and your love a constant comfort to our entire family. We wish you a birthday that shimmers with the same joy you so freely give to others. May the path ahead be lined with peace, your heart be light, and your days be long with everything that brings you happiness. You are so deeply loved by all of us. Rosie, Aretha, and Ama My dearest Aunty BB, I could write a novel about howmagnificent you are. You are kind, genuine, compassionate, strong, determined, and beautiful. If I become even half the woman you are, I will be very pleased. Thank you for being you! Lots of love from Melissa Ewuraba Anaman I hope you have a beautiful day with the family and receive all the blessings in the world. Me dɔ papapa, Luke Kennedy 28 The Birthday Journal
My dear BB, I honestly can’t remember exactly when we met—I’ve just known you forever, most likely through Francis and the long friendship he shared with my late brothers. Over the years, you became family in the truest sense. You are calm yet firm, sweet, and truly an amazing human being. It is difficult to fault you in any way. In Fante, I would simply say ɔyɛ onipa—you are a good person. Becoming in-laws only deepened what already felt natural. From the very beginning, you called my son, Raul, your son, and that spoke volumes. To this day, he says he has two mothers because Auntie BB is one of them. When Raul and Ewuradjoa eventually met, connected, and chose to marry, it felt like our two families were coming together all over again. Professionally, we have also shared many meaningful experiences. Raul and I once ran a customer service training company, and with your HR background, you collaborated with us on several projects. Before you had your office at Christ the King, we trained staff at Fidelity Bank while you were working there, and later worked together on joint training programmes. More recently, about three years ago, we planned and delivered a one-day training for priests in the diocese, covering both customer service andHR. The response was overwhelming, with requests coming in from outside Ghana. To this day, you continue to collaborate professionally with my son from time to time. As you turn 60, what stands out most to me is your wisdom and character. You carry a wise spirit, and I deeply admire the way you raised your daughter—considerate, confident, free-spirited, and every inch a lady. I truly could not have asked for a better daughter-in-law. Spiritually and as a human being, you continue to inspire me. Your discipline, commitment, and generosity of time—especially to the youth at St. James—are a blessing to many. My prayer for you is simple and heartfelt: good health, long life, and abundant joy. May God bless you richly, and may this new chapter be filled with peace, fulfilment, and the joy of many grandchildren and even great-grandchildren. Love, Ruth BB, having known you since we were both teenagers, I can certainly say I have been privileged to observe you create a fulfilling life’s journey over the past several decades. This is further exemplified by your faith and relentless dedication to God and the service of your church. The attention and unwavering love you gave to your mother, especially after the death of your father, were clearly noticeable and unsurpassed. Thank you for supporting your sister Isabella and your other siblings as you navigate the management of your family estate. Despite your busy schedule, you always find a way to make your duties as a wife, mother, and grandmother appear seamless. One of your most admired attributes is your creativity and your ability to manage business development, professional progress, and growth. As a result, we are proud of your accomplishments as a pacesetter, an effective community leader, and a mentor to thousands of young men and women in Ghana. By the grace of God, you are celebrating a major milestone filled with wisdom, resilience, and a life of accumulated experiences. This represents a pivotal moment—a time for deep reflection on your fruitful past, as well as an opportunity to embrace your current passions, strengthen relationships, and explore new possibilities. As Socrates once said, “The only true wisdom is knowing you know nothing.” As you embark on the next chapter of your life, I am confident you will continue to make us proud. For those who don’t know you well, I say: stay tuned. BB, if I had to choose one word to describe you, it would be altruism. As Proverbs 9:11 states: “For by me your days will be multiplied, and years of life will be added to you.” Happy birthday, and cheers to you! Paanii The Birthday Journal 29
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60th BirthdayMessage EkuaMenlekyi at 60—so amazing. This is the age when we used to admire our parents, uncles, and aunties for guiding family matters. BB, my Class Six French teacher—why did you never give me higher scores?Well, this best describes you: impartial, fair, meticulous, and apt. I can’t recall many childhood adventures because you were much older and often away at secondary school. But I do remember the several times I snitched on you and Isabella when you planned to go out without tellingMum and Dad. However, we shared many grown-up dreams and life challenges. At one point, we both found ourselves at the University of Ghana, Legon. You were pursuing yourMBAwhile I was doing my undergraduate degree. Oh, our lunch dates at the basement canteen, where we talked about everything—from relationships to planning Ewuradjoa’s birthday party. By the way, you never paid me for the babysitting duties as promised. Anyway, it gave me firsthand experience. How can I forget the challenging projects with tight timelines at Aspire Plus? I’m glad we’ve always had it right. During such times, you’re not BB—you’reMrs Ofei, ensuring seamless execution and timely delivery. BB, sixty is here. May this next chapter bring you endless happiness, exciting opportunities, and all the success you desire. Cheers to you and to many more memories of sisterhood. Maame Adjoa Gyamba I first met BB through her sister, Aba, in London about 13 years ago. Since then, we clicked and shared the same professional insights and values. Eventually, BB became my professional and career mentor who guided me to return to Ghana and helped me to resettle in the country professionally. I want to take a moment to express my deepest gratitude and admiration for the incredible impact you’ve had on my life and career development. Your guidance, wisdom, and unwavering support have been a constant source of inspiration and motivation for me. I have practised the soft advice you gave me that “I should know the movers, shakers and the workplace politics BUT I should never play it.” It has been very helpful and productive for me especially when situations were murky. Your ability to balance constructive feedback with encouragement and empathy helped me to grow both personally and professionally. Your door is always open to me, and your willingness to listen and offer advice has been invaluable to me which I cherish so much and hold you in high esteem. I’m so grateful for meeting you and having gotten to know you. Thank you for being an exceptional mentor, role model, and friend. As we celebrate another year and chapter of your life, may you be filled with joy, laughter, happiness, contentment, and surrounded with love as always. May you continue to evolve to greater heights to achieve all your dreams. Happy 60th Birthday and God Continue to Bless You. Amen. Yours faithfully, Michael Awuah 32 The Birthday Journal
Mrs Ofei is simply a highly skilled, experienced, and industrious professional. She is extremely meticulous and pays great attention to detail. Mrs Ofei is solution-oriented and an excellent professional with strong interpersonal skills. I have learnt a great deal about the corporate world and the HR industry in general, as well as many real-life lessons, from her. I now honestly perceive and approach things differently among my peers. It is my wish that many people will experience her personal and professional ethics. Mrs Ofei is extremely stylish, and her sense of style and love for quality are exceptional—from her cooking to her office furniture, to say the very least. One of the greatest skills I have developed in my life is the ability to brainstorm across multiple projects and multitask effectively. This is one of the many attributes I have gained by working closely with Mrs Ofei. She has taught me this because she is truly a champion of this unique skill. Thank you for making me the person and the professional I am today. Mrs Ofei, wishing you a very happy 60th birthday and many more beautiful years ahead. All the very best. Mr Seth Yeboah Marfo Project Manager Aspire Plus Limited Beatrice Bridget Ofei, BB, you have no idea how happy this makes me—to be able to say a fewwords about our lives together and howmuch of a sister you have been. You may not realise it, but you have been a wonderful sister and friend. I remember when we were two-and-a-half years old and started nursery school in Site 3 before moving to Tema Parents’. I was in the same class with you for nine years, fromNursery 1 Lily right up to Class 7 Pallas. I watched you grow into this beautiful woman. Do you remember TheWater Babies? It was a book we read in Class 3. BB, you were our “water baby” because you were very sensitive and gentle. Today, you have shown us that our sensitive “Ellie” was simply full of love and kindness. We later moved to Aburi Girls’ Secondary School together with Shormeh Dowuona and Dorothy Nanka-Bruce. I remember when you were made Class Prefect—Form2C, I think. I worried the role would break you, but you proved strong, firm, and capable. I should have known then what you would become. Look at you now—60 years old—and you’ve done it all: wife, mother, and wonderful grandmother. The pride I felt watching our daughter Adjoa walk down the aisle with Raul was immense. BB, ayekoo! BB and Prof, ayekoo! Beyond family life, you’ve achieved national recognition. Being among the Top 100 women leaders in this country is no small achievement. I proudly tell people I’ve known that woman since she was two years old. I remember our year group’s 40th anniversary reunion when everyone was drinking Coca-Cola orMalta Guinness. You pulled me aside and said, “May, I have some beer in the car.” You brought us beer to celebrate in style—so generous, as always. When I met you at La PalmHotel years later, I joked about howmuch you’d grown. I was so proud watching you handle the Fidelity Bank programme flawlessly. Sis, see how high you’ve flown—serving on the board of a bank and running your ownHR consultancy. When I needed sponsorship and support fell through, you reached into your own pocket to help. I will never forget that kindness. Now that you’ve turned 60—and joined me on the sixth floor—I simply want to say I love you. Don’t stop being the warm, loving, generous sister you’ve always been. I wish youmany, many more years ahead. ❤️ May Caesar The Birthday Journal 33
Mrs. Beatrice Bridget Ofei joined the Buck Press Board at a time when the organisation was intentionally strengthening its corporate governance framework, particularly in the area of gender diversity. At the time, the Board was made up entirely of men, and her appointment marked an important and progressive step. Since then, her presence has brought balance, insight, and thoughtful leadership to the Board’s deliberations. One of Mrs. Ofei’s most enduring contributions to Buck Press Ltd has been her instrumental role in the development of the organisation’s Human Resource framework. When she joined the Board, key HR structures—covering recruitment, performance management, and staff appraisal—were not formally documented. Drawing on her extensive professional experience, she championed the formation of a committee that worked closely with staff and management, benchmarked practices from similar institutions within the printing industry, and ultimately developed a comprehensive employee manual. This manual, which was approved by the Board and signed by staff, remains in use today and continues to guide the organisation. In Board meetings, Mrs. Ofei is known for her calm, flexible, and inclusive approach. She encourages open dialogue, listens attentively, and contributes with clarity and depth, particularly when addressing complex or sensitive matters. Her ability to balance firmness with empathy has earned her the respect of both Board members and management. Despite regulatory limitations that once required her to step away from the Board, her commitment to Buck Press remained evident. Her return to the Board—now serving as a Substitute Director to the Managing Director—has been marked by renewed energy and strong engagement. She continues to serve diligently, including in her role on the Finance and Audit Committee, where her contributions are both insightful and impactful. Mrs. Ofei is consistently punctual, dependable, and fully engaged in her responsibilities. Whether attending meetings in person or virtually, her dedication to the work of the Board has never wavered. As you turn 60, the Board of Buck Press celebrates your excellence, intelligence, and proactive spirit. You approach every assignment with deep responsibility and deliver with quiet effectiveness and grace. Happy 60th Birthday, BB. We wish you good health, fulfilment, and God’s abundant blessings, and may this new chapter bring you joy, peace, and the reward of your lasting impact. The Board of Buck Press 34 The Birthday Journal
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ATestimonial forMrs. B. Ofei –The AngelicDynamowith aHeart of Gold I have had the privilege of knowingMrs. BOfei for some 20 chunky years now—though in friendship years, that’s practically a lifetime! Our paths first crossed one fine afternoon when I paid one of my routine visits to the Royal Palaces of Brunner Court on a bright Sunday after mass. Sister BB as I fondly call her, greeted me with such warmth that I briefly wondered if I had mistakenly walked into a family reunion. Little did I know, this warmth was not just a first-impression pleasantry—it was Sis BB’s very essence, a trait deeply embedded in her and the family’s DNA! Our conversations had no visa restrictions and soon found a natural rhythm, mainly centred around our shared professional interests in People (yes, capital P—because when Sister BB speaks about people, you realize they matter ampa)! Her passion and expertise in the subject matter were evident, and she possesses that rare ability to share knowledge in a way that both enlightens and entertains—an intellectual sparring partner, but one who’d still offer you a classic Fante menu of wine, a slice of cheese and something of fried origin. One of Sister BB’s most legendary traits is her reverence for mass. When you asked her how her day had been, her signature Sunday response, “mekɔr mass,” wasn’t just a statement, it mirrored her faith, deeply inspiring but which served as a prompt and reminder to be on my most angelic behaviour whenever I visited. Beyond this, it didn’t take long to realize that her faith wasn’t just spoken; it was lived—through kindness, belief, and a joy that never seemed to wane. Looking around the room, we can see some very accomplished nurses/midwives here! Of course, Sister BB does not boast of a certificate from the Nurses andMidwives Councils of Ghana or the UK, but trust me, if there were an honorary degree in Compassion and Selflessness, she would have graduated summa cum laude decades ago. I have had occasion to see her – very solicitous and selfless, showing sacrifice and strength at times when many would have embraced despair and excuse(s). She has shown admirable care and thoughtfulness on many “trying” occasions—so effortlessly that one might wonder if she was secretly trained in angelic duties. Affable, personable, and always ready with a warm embrace, Sister BB is a beacon of kindness in a world that could always use more of it. But of course, what should we expect?! Devoid of any bias, it is true to remark that a fine APSU gentleman in the mould of Senior Francis would only have gone for the best-in-class! Sister BB’s perseverance of, and for excellence in all she puts her mind and work to indeed conquers all. Here’s to Sister BB, aHappy and Blessed 60th! May your warmth continue to light up lives, your wisdom inspire minds, and your “mekɔr mass” reminders keep us all wedded to faith and on our best behaviour! Beatus Natalis Sister BB!!! John Wilson 36 The Birthday Journal
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