It is a privilege to share a few things about Hon. Mama Alberta Cudjoe—Mama, Alibi. Today is a joyous day to celebrate her and to reflect on my experiences with the Cudjoe family, especially Mama, over the past forty-five years. I first came to know this remarkable family through her daughter and my dear friend Caroline, and from then on, Mama became a dependable and well-rounded presence who touched each of our lives—bringing joy in good times and comfort during challenges. Christian Life Mama has always understood the Christian life and doctrine, living by its principles. When we were children, she would offer short prayers many times a day—even in the bread room. Her faith was never something distant; it was woven into the very fabric of her daily life. Work Life Her instructions were always simple yet profound. She often said, “Listen attentively.” Mama disliked interruptions when speaking, and if anyone interjected too quickly, she would gently say, “You will come back to me once you disagree with me.” She was always right. I would eventually return to her, and she would seal the lesson with an Akan proverb before giving her support. Home Training Mama’s passion was working diligently and delivering on time. She valued punctuality and reliability, never tolerating disappointment. This consistency earned her the admiration and respect of friends and clients alike. Ability to Work Under Pressure To walk with Alibi, you had to be ready to go the extra mile. If you didn’t have what it took, she would call you a “German machine” in jest. You could not pass through her hands and remain lazy. Everything was done together—in love, joy, and laughter. If you missed the mark, she would quietly lean in and whisper corrections into your ear, steering you back with grace. Hospitality Alibi welcomed everyone with open arms. She hosted guests with warmth, making sure we were always presentable and that visitors felt completely at ease. On this incredible day, we gather to celebrate a truly remarkable woman, a force of nature, and the heart of our family: Alberta Cudjoe. Turning 90 is a monumental milestone, giving us the perfect opportunity to reflect on a life lived with purpose, passion, and an unwavering commitment to both family and country. To us, Alberta is the matriarch—a leader whose presence is both powerful and comforting. She is a woman of discipline and great humor, who believed deeply in the value of family togetherness. The lessons she taught weren’t always gentle, but they were always effective, and always rooted in love. She made sure we understood that our greatest strength lies in supporting one another. She was always “big on family gatherings,” and that legacy is one we all treasure. I remember when I arrived in Ghana for my 65th birthday, and she brought the entire family together at Uncle Benji’s home just to celebrate. That day wasn’t just about a birthday—it was a testament to her dedication to keeping us connected, showing us that no matter where life takes us, we remain part of a larger, loving whole because of her. Her influence, however, extends far beyond our family. To the nation, Alberta Cudjoe is a respected figure in Ghana’s political history. While we know her as a mother and grandmother, Ghana knows her as a dedicated public servant. She served her people with the same passion, strength, and effectiveness with which she raised her family, leaving behind a legacy of leadership in both public and private life. Today, we honor a life rich in accomplishments, lessons, and above all, love. To Alberta Cudjoe—our mother, grandmother, matriarch, and a truly great leader—we say thank you for everything you are and everything you have done. Please join me in raising a glass: To Alberta, on her 90th birthday! May you be blessed with continued health, happiness, and surrounded by the love you have so selflessly given to us all. Happy Birthday! **Yvonne Bascom 56 The Birthday Journal
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