One of the things I deeply admire about Grandma is her strong sense of discipline. From my time living with her, I came to understand that what may first seem like a strict approach is really her way of shaping us into better people. Her guidance leaves a lasting impact, molding us into the men and women we are today. Anyone who has known her, whether up close or from afar, can testify to the strength, love, and wisdom behind that discipline. One memory I’ll never forget is from my wedding day. When it was time to cut the cake with Mama, my wife was rocking her official wedding outfit—a classy jumpsuit gown with a detachable flair. Since the flair had already been taken off, Mama suddenly insisted we put it back on before cutting the cake. Till today, I still don’t know the reason behind that little “fashion emergency,” but hey, Mama’s word was final! My wish for Grandma at 90 is simple: may her health stay strong, her laughter stay loud, and her wisdom continue guiding us—even if we don’t always understand her rules until years later. **Raymond Robert Cudjoe I love how Auntie Alberta always welcomes me with a warm smile and her delicious meals and cakes. Her hospitality and love are such a blessing to our family, and I am grateful for her presence in my life. I have many heartwarming memories of sharing holidays, birthdays, and special occasions together during family gatherings in Ghana. Learning her cooking techniques, listening to her life experiences, and receiving her wisdom and guidance are treasures I will always hold close. Ninety years young and still shining bright! I admire your strength, resilience, and kindness. I’m honoured to celebrate this milestone birthday with you, and I wish you God’s abundant blessings. **Nana Adjoa Oye Cudjoe Happy Birthday, Alibi! What I love most about you is your love, care, and adoration for everyone—always combined with your no-nonsense attitude that keeps us all on track. You have a way of showing deep affection while making sure we stay grounded, and that balance is truly special. One of my fondest memories with you was our trip to London in 1977. It was fun, funny, and so exciting—an experience I will always treasure. Alibi, you are always special. My wish for you is many more years filled with good health, laughter, and peace. With love, ** Henrietta 46 The Birthday Journal
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