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Contents Foundations of a Legacy Educational Endeavours 6 8 10 16 18 22 28 32 37 A Timeless Union Milestones of Excellence Faith, Fitness, and Traditions Faithful Leader and Generous Patriarch A Father’s Influence Family Milestones Voices of the Next Generation The Birthday Journal 3
Anecdote In the rich history of the Asanteman, names carry profound significance, linking individuals not only to their families but also to legacies spanning generations. The story of Maame Afia Konadu, daughter of Apagyahene Owusu Afriyie II, exemplifies this connection between name and heritage. In Ashanti tradition, a name is inherited, bridging the present with the past and serving as a reminder of one’s origins and the legacy they are meant to uphold. The Apagya is a princely stool, and the marriage between the Otumfuo and the Apagya dates back approximately 300 years. The two families have been intermarrying since before the founding of Asante. Maame Afia Konadu was named after Asantehemaa Konadu Yiadom, a revered figure in Ashanti history. Konadu Yiadom was the daughter of Prempeh I, who heroically resisted British colonial forces. Konadu Yiadom upheld the cultural integrity of the Ashanti people. By bearing her name, Maame Afia Konadu embodied the strength and leadership associated with the Asantehemaa’s role in society. The name Konadu was more than just a tribute; it was a constant reminder of Maame Afia Konadu’s royal lineage and the responsibilities it entailed. Her father, Apagyahene Owusu Afriyie II, was a distinguished chief of Apagya and a larger-than-life figure in Kumasi from the 1880s until his death in 1936. Appointed chief as a teenager, he was not only a figure of royal status but also exceptionally industrious. Renowned for his wealth, he expanded his inheritance through industry, trading, and farming. Among his children were Maame Afia Konadu, Adwoa Fobi, Mensah Bonsu, Ama Afrakoma, Akoto, and Owusu Afriyie, the latter of whom became the Chief Conservator of Forests for Ghana, overseeing the country’s forestry efforts. Apagyahene Owusu Afriyie II secured the family’s influence by arranging Maame Afia Konadu’s marriage to Poku Kejetia, a prosperous businessman in Kumasi and a good friend. This strategic alliance solidified the family’s status and wealth. Poku Kejetia, one of Kumasi’s wealthiest men at the time, was synonymous with success and ambition. His ventures in cocoa, rubber trading, and farming significantly increased his wealth, establishing him as a key figure in Kumasi’s economy. His success laid the foundation for his descendants, including Poku Transport—a renowned family business—continuing his legacy of prosperity and leadership. His name came to symbolise achievement and opportunity beyond his lifetime. The family home, Apagya Fie Mu, where Maame Afia Konadu lived with her extended family, including the Mensah Bonsus, Asibeys, Oseis, and Kufuors, symbolised both familial and royal pride. It was here that Kwame Osei-Poku, born from her union with Poku, was raised. The birth of Kwame Osei-Poku and his siblings represented the blending of Konadu’s royal authority with Poku’s entrepreneurial ambition, reflecting a merger of royal duty and business acumen. 4 The Birthday Journal
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Legacy Early Life Kwame Osei-Poku was born on 19 September 1934, the pride and joy of the late Nana Kwabena Poku, affectionately known as Kejetia Poku, and the late Martha Owusu Afriyie, also known as Oheneba Afua Konadu. Born in Kumasi, Kwame was his mother’s firstborn, holding a special place in the family. With a mother who was the daughter of the Apagyahene from the Oyoko clan, Kwame’s family tree reads like royalty—making him the esteemed grandson of the Apagyahene. Kwame’s early years were filled with the warmth of a close-knit family, including his younger sister, Juliana Poku (affectionately called Sister Yaa), and baby brother, John Adu Gyamfi Poku. However, this joy was abruptly interrupted by the death of his father when he was just 11 years old. Kwame, together with his sister and brother, continued to stay in Apagya Fie Mu with their mother after their father’s death. It is noteworthy that they grew up with their cousins, including His Excellency John Agyekum Kufuor, former President of Ghana, Dr Kwame Addo Kufuor, former Minister of Defence, and the late George Addo Kufuor. Eventually, the family moved to their maternal family home at Akwatia Line, another suburb of Kumasi. Pampered by his mother, particularly due to the eight-year gap between him and his sister, Kwame enjoyed considerable attention and privileges during his early years. His mother later remarried and had four more sons: Francis, Frank, Bempah, and Anthony. This brought the total number of his siblings to six. Kwame’s late father also had other children, and the bond between Kwame and all his siblings remained strong. They continue to share close ties, often coming together for social gatherings in Kumasi and Accra, maintaining the close-knit relationships that defined their early years. D E C A D E 1 Foundations of a 6 The Birthday Journal
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St. Cyprian Anglican School Kwame’s educational journey began with a promising start. He attended St. Cyprian Anglican School in Kumasi for his primary and middle school education. He fondly recalled reciting rhymes, memorising Bible verses, learning Bible stories, and participating in moral education lessons. Accra Academy Kwame’s academic potential did not go unnoticed. After reviewing the results of his Middle School Certificate Examinations, his late uncle, Mr. James Mensah-Bonsu, a former diplomat in the First Republic, proudly remarked, “This boy is gifted; we have to ensure that he is educated to the highest level.” With his uncle’s support, Kwame secured a place at Accra Academy in Accra. Secondary school at Accra Academy was both enjoyable and challenging for Kwame. Although he was a quiet and studious student, he took his education seriously, particularly excelling in Mathematics and Physics. Kwame’s strict Anglican upbringing and the strong values instilled in him by his mother helped him maintain a disciplined and morally upright stance during his time at the Academy. He also participated in various sports activities, further enriching his school experience. Kwame left Accra Academy with flying colours after his final exams. He was employed at Kumasi Post Office and worked briefly before leaving for the United Kingdom to pursue further studies. D E C A D E 2 Endeavours Educational 8 The Birthday Journal
Brighton College of Technology Life at Brighton College of Technology in the UK marked another turning point in his educational life. Life at Brighton was quite challenging as Kwame faced a new environment, food, and weather. Despite the challenges, Kwame remained focused on his studies and graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1964. From 1964 to 1966, he undertook postgraduate training inEnglandwith firms suchasNorthwest Construction, George Stow, and Sumo Submersible Pumps. He thenmoved to theU.S. to specialise in drilling engineering, where he continued his education with a postgraduate course in Ground Water Development and Management from 1966 to 1967 at the University of Minnesota, the University of Arizona, and the U.S. Geological Survey in Denver, Colorado. Kwame is a member of the Institute of Mechanical Engineers (UK) and the Ghana Institution of Engineering (M.I.Gh.E). Despite the challenges, Kwame remained focused on his studies and graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering by 1964. “ The Birthday Journal 9
Meeting Victoria While walking through the streets of Brighton one day, Kwame noticed a familiar face approaching him. It was a beautiful Ghanaian girl he recognised from Ghanaian circles, a social and talkative young woman named Catherine. She greeted him warmly and, during their conversation, promised to visit his home to prepare groundnut soup for him. In those lonely days, the prospect of company was a welcome one, and Kwame even invited his friend W.E. Jonah, now known as Nana Prah Agyensaim VI, to join them. D E C A D E 3 A Timeless True to her word, Catherine arrived at Kwame’s house, but she did not come alone. Accompanying her was her older sister, a stunning young woman who immediately captured Kwame’s attention. With her dazzling smile, captivating charm, and sweet innocence, Victoria was unlike anyone Kwame had ever met. Victoria, a name fit for a queen, soon became the queen of Kwame’s heart. She was only 18 years old when they first met, and their union seemed destined. Kwame also got along very well with Victoria’s father, the late William Baidoe-Ansah, who believed Kwame would be an ideal partner for his young daughter. Union 10 The Birthday Journal
After three years of courtship, Kwame and Victoria married in London in 1965. Their wedding at the Ealing Broadway Methodist Church was a grand affair, attended by numerous family members from both sides, friends, and dignitaries. Their marriage has been blessed with four children: James, Deborah (now deceased), William, and Prince. Embracing fatherhood brought Kwame a new sense of responsibility, and he was determined to be the best father he could be. The arrival of each child, from James to Prince, marked significant moments in their lives, with Deborah’s memory cherished deeply. As of this year, 2024, they have been married for 59 years. Kwame often reflects on their marriage, acknowledging the differences between them. He is quiet, reserved, and a stickler for routine, while Victoria is lively and very much a social butterfly. Despite these contrasts, they have been married for almost six decades, a clear sign that they must be doing something right. The Birthday Journal 11
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My Dear Husband, As you celebrate your 90th birthday, I find myself thinking back over the many years we’ve shared together. From the time we first met in Brighton when I was just 18, to today, our journey has been filled with love, challenges, and beautiful memories. Catherine brought us together, and looking back, I’m so grateful she did. I may not have known what lay ahead for us back then, but God knew best. You’ve always been kind, reliable, and a constant presence in my life. We married in 1965, and I still remember our grand wedding – a day filled with love, family, and joy. Moving back to Ghana and raising our children was one of the best decisions we made. I will forever be grateful for our children and the joy they continue to bring into our lives. Though we have different personalities—you being more reserved and me a bit more outgoing—we’ve found the perfect balance. You’ve always valued structure, time, and routine, and in your quiet way, you’ve guided our family with wisdom and love. Your love for travelling, your passion for shopping (albeit with very careful consideration), and your disciplined approach to exercise have brought a sense of joy and admiration into our home. Even now, in our retirement, as we enjoy quieter moments together, I deeply appreciate the companionship we’ve built, along with our unique routines, including church—you as an Anglican and I as a Methodist. As we celebrate this milestone, I want you to know how much I love and appreciate you. You’ve been a wonderful husband and father, and I thank God for the gift of your life. With love, Vicky 14 The Birthday Journal
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Career Achievements Kwame was recruited by the Ghana Water and Sewerage Corporation straight after graduating from Brighton in 1964. He was then sponsored by the Corporation for practical training in the UK and postgraduate studies in the United States from 1964 to 1967. He returned to Ghana in 1967 and began his distinguished career with the Ghana Water and Sewerage Corporation (GWSC) as Head of the Drilling Section. Kwame managed critical areas such as the Drilling and Hydrogeological units. In June 1971, Kwame was appointed co-manager of the WHO-sponsored Rural Water Supply and Sanitation Project, where he played a key role in addressing rural water supply challenges in Ghana. D E C A D E 4 Milestones of Excellence 16 The Birthday Journal
From 1973 to 1980, Kwame served as Regional Director for the Ghana Water and Sewerage Corporation in the Volta Region, where he coordinated the region’s administrative and operational activities. He continued in the same capacity from 1980 to 1990 in the larger Ashanti Region. Kwame’s expertise further expanded as Area Director for the Accra/Tema Metropolitan Area (ATMA) from 1990 to 1995, where he was responsible for water and sewerage services in the area. In August 1995, he was appointed Deputy Managing Director (Operations), assisting in the overall direction of the Ghana Water and Sewerage Corporation. After retiring in 1996, with his extensive experience at Ghana Water and Sewerage, Kwame was appointed as a Commissioner of the Public Utilities Regulatory Commission (PURC) for two terms (from November 1997 to June 2009). Since 1997, Kwame has been the Chairman of KOP Engineering, established in partnership with his son William. The Birthday Journal 17
Papa’s Lifelong Principles Papa, a devoted Anglican who worships at Christ Anglican Church, University of Ghana, Legon, has consistently upheld his faith throughout his life. His commitment is evident in his regular attendance at early morning Mass on Fridays and Sunday services, a tradition he has faithfully followed for many decades. This devotion honours his mother, the late Afia Konadu, who had a profound influence on his spirituality.Papa believes that his long, fulfilling life is a direct result of his faith in God. In addition to his spiritual dedication, Papa’s commitment to health has been a defining feature of his life across nine decades. He attributes his longevity to his health-conscious habits, including daily morning walks. From his early morning one-hour runs, which his children remember with admiration, to his daily walks, his dedication to fitness has been both remarkable and consistent. Despite the challenges of ageing that have affected his mobility, he adapted his routine but never let his focus on health slip. D E C A D E 5 Faith, Fitness, and Traditions 18 The Birthday Journal
His involvement with the now-defunct Kumasi Keep Fit Club, where he trained under the late national athletics coach Mr Lawson, further highlights his long-term dedication to fitness. Throughout his life, Papa’s dedicated approach to maintaining his health, despite obstacles, reflects his enduring discipline. For the past 55 years, Papa has made a habit of travelling to the UK every summer, a tradition that underscores his commitment to consistency and routine. This annual journey has become an essential part of his well-ordered life, reflecting his dedication to maintaining tradition. A quirky trait of Papa is his meticulous approach to shopping. He engages in extensive research and scrutinises every detail of an item before making a purchase. Spontaneous shopping is simply not in his vocabulary; instead, his routine revolves around careful deliberation and precision. This methodical approach highlights his belief that life should be well-regulated and organised. Papa’s routine also includes a love for classical music and morning devotion. His disciplined lifestyle and deep faith are central to his identity, and he feels immensely blessed and proud of the achievements of his children and grandchildren, considering them part of his lasting legacy. The Birthday Journal 19
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His disciplined lifestyle and deep faith are central to his identity, and he feels immensely blessed and proud of the achievements of his children and grandchildren, considering them part of his lasting legacy. Kwame is a longstanding member of the Freemasons, specifically Lodge Kumasi, 1472 SC (Scottish Constitution). His association with the Lodge dates back to the late 1960s, during which time he was a very active member. In the 1970s, he was elevated to the esteemed position of Master of Lodge Kumasi. Additionally, he holds membership in the District Grand Lodge of Ghana. Although he remains a member, advancing age and mobility issues have reduced his active participation in Lodge activities. Nonetheless, he recalls with great pride his tenure as a Past Master of Lodge Kumasi. Association with Freemasons Lodge “ The Birthday Journal 21
Legacy Kwame Osei-Poku’s legacy is deeply rooted in his steadfast faith in God and his boundless generosity. As the ‘Abusuapanyin,’ the head of the extended family, Kwame has long been the guiding force and the steadfast pillar of the family. His role extends beyond mere leadership; he offers wise counsel, financial support, and mediates in family matters, ensuring that peace and harmony are always maintained. His commitment to attending family events, particularly funerals in Kumasi, despite the challenges of age, reflects his dedication to upholding family traditions. Papa’s influence reaches far beyond his immediate family, touching the lives of his former colleagues and many others who have been fortunate enough to cross his path. His dedication to the welfare of the family and his community has made him a revered figure, not just as a family head, but as a man of integrity and faith. D E C A D E 6 Faithful Leader and Generous Patriarch 22 The Birthday Journal
John, his younger brother, highlights Kwame’s dedication to faith and family: Dear big bro, As we celebrate your 90th birthday, I want to express how much you’ve meant to me. Your legacy of faith and generosity shines brightly. Over the years, you have supported me in every way you could. As the ‘Abusuapanyin,’ you are a cornerstone of our family and a respected figure beyond it. You’ve always maintained a close bond with your siblings. The strong connection you shared with us is evident from our time together in Kumasi and Accra. Social gatherings, shared beers, and family meetings reflect the deep friendship and joy we’ve experienced. Your commitment to family is remarkable, as shown by your determination to attend family events. Recently, you insisted on travelling to Kumasi for a funeral even though you were unwell and had not slept well the night before. Two years ago, when my wife was critically ill, your support was a beacon of strength. Your comforting words that everything was in God’s hands helped us through that challenging time, and I’m forever grateful for your support. Naana has always been appreciative of your visits during those difficult times. Meeting you at church every Sunday is a cherished tradition. Although our Sunday lunches at your house are less frequent, we still visit you regularly, maintaining our strong family bonds. Your dedication to your faith and punctuality is truly inspiring. Kwame, we are all blessed to have you as our brother. Happy 90th birthday! May God bless you with continued good health and peace. Anokye Abebreseh, a nephew, captures the essence of Papa’s impact: Dear Uncle, I write this short piece to express my deepest appreciation and gratitude for being such an incredible person to me and the entire family. Reaching 90 years on this turbulent earth, which is full of uncertainties, is a remarkable achievement. Nine decades of a fulfilled and abundant life, filled with love, care, and adventure, is indeed blessed and commendable. Your wisdom, kindness, generosity, and sense of purpose have made such a profound impact on my life, and I feel very lucky to have you as my uncle. I’m so grateful for the stories you have shared, the lessons you have taught me, and the love you have shown me over the years. You are indeed an inspiration to me and many others. It is my prayer that this special day will be filled with joy, love, and all your favourite things. Thank you for being such an amazing uncle. I love you more than words can say. Continue to stay blessed, my great uncle. Happy 90th birthday. Reflections from Loved Ones The Birthday Journal 23
Bempah Kufour, Kwame’s another brother, reflects on the profound influence Kwame has had on him: Dear Big Brother, As you celebrate your 90th birthday, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt appreciation for the incredible influence you have had on my life. Your sense of purpose, kindness, and gentleness are just a few of the attributes I learned from you while growing up. As you celebrate this remarkable milestone, I want you to know that I’m honoured to be your brother. I’m so proud of the person you are and all that you have accomplished. Obiri Asamoah, a nephew, expresses gratitude for Papa’s influence on his life: Dear Uncle, We thank the Almighty God for your life and for adding another year to it. I want to take this opportunity to say a big thank you for the role you played in my educational life. Helping me to get admission into Opoku Ware School (OWASS) has made all the difference in my life. It has indeed made me what I am today. I will forever be grateful. Happy 90th birthday, and may God continue to bless you. Amen! Nana Yaw sends his congratulatory message: Dear Cousin, I would like to take this opportunity to congratulate you on reaching such a milestone of 90 years. I pray that the good Lord continues to bless you with love, peace, happiness, and many more healthy years to come. Have a wonderful birthday. Michael Mensah-Bonsu is thankful for the wisdom received: Dear Cousin, I’ve always valued the wisdom you shared: “Be responsible like your father and take good care of the family.” This advice has guided me throughout my life. I also remember the times you visited me at Achimota boarding school when my father was bedridden. Your visits and the pocket money you gave were much appreciated and have left lasting memories. On your special day, I wish you continued blessings from the Almighty. We all strive to be worthy of the values you’ve instilled in us. 24 The Birthday Journal
J.M. Bonsu takes a moment to express his gratitude: One piece of wisdom you’ve shared that has always stayed with me is to “be humble.” It’s a lesson that has guided me throughout my life. I have unforgettable memories of how proud you were to attend my wedding. Your presence was deeply appreciated. On your special day, I wish you many more returns and a healthy life. Sister-in-law Catherine, with warmth and affection, shares her heartfelt message: Happy 90th Birthday, brother-in-law! Wishing you an abundance of blessings, good health, and happiness in the years ahead. May this special day bring you all the joy you deserve! Sister Yaa, reflecting on a lifetime of shared memories, sends her heartfelt wishes: Happy 90th Birthday, Kwame! Your wisdom, strength, and kindness continue to inspire us all. Wishing you good health and happiness. May God bless you. Francis Gambrah, with deep admiration for all that Kwame has achieved, offers this congratulatory message: Congratulations on reaching this great milestone! Your 90 years have been filled with love and blessings. Happy birthday, my brother! Anthony, grateful for Kwame’s presence in the family, shares his appreciation: Happy 90th, dear brother! You’ve always been a guiding light in our family, and today we celebrate the remarkable life you’ve led. May the years ahead bring even more joy! Frank, celebrating Kwame’s incredible life journey, extends his best wishes: Your journey through life has been extraordinary, and it’s a privilege to celebrate this milestone with you. Wishing you a wonderful 90th birthday! The Birthday Journal 25
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Dear Kwame, I am so happy that you are turning 90. I pray that the Lord continues to shower His blessings upon you with more life, long life, and good health. I won’t mention prosperity because you already have it in abundance. Instead, I wish you happiness, well-being, and joy. We are following in your footsteps, aspiring to reach 90 with the same good health, well-being, and grace that you embody. Continue to be a good, caring brother. God bless. His Excellency John Agyekum Kufuor The Birthday Journal 27
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Kwame, affectionately known as Papa by his children, demonstrated a deep commitment to discipline in his parenting. Raised by strict disciplinarians himself, he instilled a strong sense of responsibility and honesty in his children. Despite his frequent travel and often being absent, Kwame made the most of the weekends they spent together, occasionally taking them on car rides to bond. Sundays, in particular, were special moments, as they drove to the Meridian Hotel in Tema for his haircut, reinforcing their connection and making the most of their time together. Parenting James James reminisced about Papa with a blend of respect and understanding. “Though he wasn’t a particularly playful father, Papa took his role seriously,” James reflected. “He was strict, driven by a deep desire for us to reach our full potential and make sound decisions.” Punctuality and routine were cornerstones of Papa’s upbringing, and he was intent on passing these values down to his children. James vividly recalled an incident that left a lasting impression. Papa had set a strict curfew for his sons, and when James broke it, he quickly learned how serious his father was about rules. “Papa locked the doors that night, teaching me a lesson about the importance of being punctual and following the rules,” James said, his voice carrying a note of reflection. Another memory stood out with striking clarity. “When I was sent to London for university, I made a decision that worried Papa—I chose to work first and make some money before focusing on my studies,” James recalled. “I didn’t tell my father this, but he heard I was working, and the sleepless nights this decision caused Papa were profound, given his high expectations for our education.” Papa’s response was swift and decisive; he took a flight fromAccra to London. “Papa surprised me with a visit,” James continued. “I came home from work to find Papa waiting for me in the sitting room.” The next day, Papa took action to ensure James would stay on the right path. “Papa arranged a grant for me and made sure I resumed my studies,” James said, his voice tinged with gratitude. “Papa’s commitment to our success was steadfast, and looking back, I realize just how much he cared about our future.” The Birthday Journal 29
Debbie In Loving Memory In 2012, the loss of Debbie, his only daughter, was an unbearable tragedy. Debbie held a unique place in Papa’s heart as the only child who could stand up to him and who was often used by her brothers to get what they wanted. Her death was a profound and personal loss for Papa, a sorrow he struggled to comprehend and accept. Her passing was the hardest ordeal he had ever faced, and his faith in God was the only thing that helped him cope. William William reflected on how he grew close to his father, Papa, after turning 18, despite not having lived together during his formative years. William lived in Accra with his mother, while Papa served as the Regional Director for the Ghana Water and Sewerage Corporation in the Volta Region and later in the Ashanti Region. As William grew into adulthood and moved to England, Papa began visiting him. During these visits, they engaged in long conversations where Papa would share snippets of advice. William often teased his father about his distinctive way of saying “no,” delivered with a quick and emphatic “no no no no no.” This drawn-out response made it abundantly clear that the answer was absolute and non-negotiable. One piece of advice that particularly resonated with William was, “Never ask someone for something if you know they’re going to say no.” Papa’s point was that if experience or conversation suggested a refusal, it was better not to ask at all. This approach helped avoid placing someone in an awkward position where they had to decline, thereby preserving the relationship. Papa consistently emphasized the importance of maintaining good relationships and avoiding uncomfortable situations. One key trait William acquired from his father was his punctuality and adherence to routine. Papa was always the first to arrive at work, church, or any social function. “Of course, in a culture like we have in Ghana, this means that Papa was almost always having to wait for others, and this sometimes causes him mild irritation,” William reflected. William also noted how proud Papa was of one particular habit. “My regular attendance at the Friday Morning Service at Ridge Church. I travel a lot, and even when I return home late on a Thursday night, the following day, being a Friday, I still go to church,” William said. “Somehow, someone will inform Papa that they saw me at church, and I would immediately receive a call from him, telling me how proud he is that I made it to church and that God should always be first in my life.” “ One key trait William acquired from his father was his punctuality and adherence to routine 30 The Birthday Journal
Junior Junior recalls the incident with a mix of amusement and a sense of the mischief he got into as a young boy. “Papa was enjoying a pleasant afternoon with his brothers on the veranda when he noticed several men in their forties and fifties heading towards the boys’ quarters,” Junior begins, a hint of a smile playing on his lips. “We lived close to the City Hotel at the time, and Papa was puzzled. None of his children were in that age group—after all, I was only ten years old.” The memory of what followed remains vivid. “When Papa approached them, he was shocked to learn they were looking for me, Junior, because I had allegedly helped them with lottery numbers,” Junior recalls, chuckling at the thought of his younger self being caught up in such a situation. “The shock and embarrassment were clear on Papa’s face, especially in front of his guests.” But the amusement fades as Junior reflects on what came next. “Papa was furious. He immediately demanded that the men leave and then confronted me,” Junior admits. “Papa hoped this would be a stern lesson, that I would understand I was too young to be involved in the lottery.” Junior explains that, even though he was young, by sheer luck the workers had won the lottery three times in a four-week period. “They had been blessed with those lottery wins,” he recalls, “but looking back, I realise how much Papa wanted to protect us and guide us on the right path, even if it meant delivering a few stern words.” Now, Junior is deeply thankful for the life lessons his father instilled in him, especially the importance of doing everything in moderation, being wise with money, and putting God first in all things. “Papa taught us values that have shaped who we are today. I owe somuch to him for guiding me, even when I didn’t fully understand his wisdom at the time.” The Birthday Journal 31
In-Laws Papa is truly blessed as he witnesses his children getting married and starting their own families. His joy is further amplified by the expanding family, as new generations bring fresh energy and love into his life. This growth not only deepens the family bond but also reaffirms the legacy of love and togetherness that Papa has always valued. Family Milestones D E C A D E 8 James & Ruby William & Abena Jnr & Samia 32 The Birthday Journal
Happy 90th Birthday, Papa! On this milestone of your 90th birthday, we are filled with admiration and gratitude for the incredible life you have lived. Your dedication to fitness, never missing your daily exercise and walks—come rain or shine, whether in the UK or Ghana—inspires us to do better. I always enjoy your regular visits to our home, the conversations, the advice, and the way you motivated Effie to excel in school. May this special day bring you as much happiness as you have given to us. Here’s to your remarkable journey and to many more years filled with love, laughter, and good health. Ruby Happy Birthday, Papa. Thank you for all your love. Have a wonderful day! God bless you! Samia Papa, I fondly recall when you called me after I got my first Executive Director role. You prayed for me, showered me with blessings, and gave me very practical advice, including this gem: never leave your water on your desk! My dearest Papa, happy glorious 90th birthday! I’m joining all the angels to shout and praise God for a fatherin-law so full of love and care for his family. Thank you for all the love you continually show me; I’m eternally grateful. Wishing you good health and all of God’s manifold blessings. I love you dearly. Abena The Birthday Journal 33
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As we celebrate Papa’s 90th birthday, his grandchildren from around the world are chiming in with our messages. No matter where we are, we’re all buzzing with excitement to show our appreciation for the grandpa who’s always been there. Check out our notes and join us in wishing Papa a fun and blessed birthday! Voices of the Next Generation D E C A D E 9 The Birthday Journal 37
Walking with Papa Growing up as the first grandchild often comes with its perks, but with my grandparents, it felt like an endless supply of love, care, and precious routines. From the moment I can remember, I was Papa’s little shadow, following him everywhere, much to the delight and amusement of everyone around us. Some even mistook me for his youngest child because of how inseparable we were. I first started living with my grandparents when I was just three years old. Although I moved back to live with my parents for a short while, I returned to them at six. Those early years with Papa in East Legon were full of routines and rituals, the core of our bond. Every Sunday was our special day. We would dress up and head to Legon Christ Anglican Church together. It was a routine I held dear. The car ride to church was always accompanied by the same radio station, playing tunes that defined my childhood. Papa would sometimes sing along, his voice filled with warmth that made me feel safe and loved. At church, I went off to Sunday School, but my four-year-old self never worried about not finding Papa—he would be in the exact spot he always sat. A true creature of habit. Papa loved church and the routine of the Anglican Church. I could always feel his joy and passion there. My grandma, being a Methodist, rarely joined us on these Sunday excursions. It was always just the two of us. It was our time, a tradition that continued for many years and formed a cornerstone of my childhood. After the service, we’d drive back home, our hearts full from the time spent together. The familiar tune of “Que Sera Sera” filled the car, and I couldn’t help but sing along. Papa joined in, his voice deep and steady, making me laugh. Moments like these are the ones I treasure most—simple, yet filled with love. Papa was a man of structure and routine. He valued consistency and predictability in his daily life. He had specific times for meals, left for church at the same hour every Sunday, and never missed his morning walks. Those walks were another bonding moment for us. Although I was just a little girl and couldn’t keep up with his brisk pace, he would slow down just for me. We would chat about the simplest things—what I was learning at school, the flowers we passed, or the dogs barking in the distance. As I grew older, our conversations became deeper, touching on my future, my career as a midwife, and even our views on the world. Papa had a softer side, especially when it came to me. I’ve heard stories from my dad and uncles about how strict he was with them. But with me, it was different. I had him wrapped around my little finger. If I ever got into trouble and someone dared to scold me, Papa would come to my rescue. He would whisk me away to his bedroom, where a small fridge filled with sweets and chocolates awaited me. Without fail, I would leave with a piece of chocolate, my worries forgotten. Our bond was evident to everyone. I even slept in their bedroom on my own little bed for years, something that further deepened our connection. It was no surprise that people often assumed I was his last-born. And in many ways, I felt like I was. One of my fondest memories is of Papa leaving some of his chicken for me. As a child, chicken was my favourite, and regardless of where I was, Papa would call me over to share it with him. It was his way of showing his love, and it made me feel incredibly special. Through our time together, Papa taught me many valuable lessons. The most important one was to always put God first. He also showed me the importance of family and how vital it is to know that you are never alone because your family will always be there for you. He even confirms it every time he comes to visit me in the UK, saying, “If you need anything, I am always here for you.” As I look back on those days, I realise how much Papa influenced the person I am today. Our Sunday drives, morning walks, and shared meals were more than just routines; they were moments of learning, love, and connection. I carry his lessons with me every day, and I am eternally grateful for the time we spent together. By Nana Ama 38 The Birthday Journal
Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! Grandpa, on this special day as we celebrate your 90th birthday, I pray that God continues to bless you with good health, strength, and happiness. May we create many more memories together, just as we did when I was your little shadow—the last-born who loves you more than words can ever express. Nana Ama Happy Birthday, Grandpa! I feel so blessed to have you as my grandpa and to be sharing this special day with you. I will always cherish our moments together, filled with advice and encouragement to excel. Thank you for always being so kind to me; you light up my face every time I see you. Wishing you a wonderful birthday and many more happy years ahead. From your granddaughter, Afia Konadu (Effie) Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! We are celebrating not just another year gone by, but an amazing journey of wisdom, love, and life. Your 90 years are a clear testament to your strength, your love, and the impact you’ve had on everyone fortunate enough to be around you. As we celebrate this milestone, know that you are cherished beyond what words or birthday wishes can express. Here’s to many more years of health, happiness, love, and treasured moments. May your special day be filled with the joy and love you’ve given us throughout your life. We all love and admire you, Papa. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Nana Bonsu Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! I am grateful for every moment I’ve spent with you and the wisdom and stories you’ve shared. You’ve always been a guiding light in my life. May you have an amazing day, and may God bless you with happiness and good health. Christian Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! We thank God for blessing you with another year. 90 years is truly a milestone! May God bless you with many more happy and healthy years. I love you Grandpa, have an amazing day! Kimora The Birthday Journal 39
Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! One piece of wisdom or a life lesson you’ve taught me is the importance of doing everything in moderation. It’s something I’ll carry with me throughout life. My special birthday wish for you is that you continue to live in happiness and good strength for all your days. William Bradley Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! Dear Papa, I find it funny that there is always an obligatory comment about my hair, whether it’s a lot or in braids, whenever I see you. These moments always bring a smile to my face and remind me of the joy you bring into our lives. On your 90th birthday, my special wish for you is that every day is a wonderful day for you. Ben Osei-Poku Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! I pray for long life, health, and strength. I pray you confide in the Lord at all times. I pray you continue to love God and love others, constantly staying grateful and thankful for what life brings. Xara Osei-Poku Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! We are so grateful for all the wisdom, love, and faith you’ve shared with us. May God continue to bless you with health, happiness, and peace. With love, Jason Happy 90th Birthday, Grandpa! It’s a rare blessing to celebrate a grandfather’s 90th birthday, and I thank God for your life and for being the pillar of this family. One piece of wisdom I’ve gained from you is the importance of being disciplined and humble in all my interactions. I’ll always remember our time together on Oxford Street, where you advised me to seize opportunities and shared your own experiences of missed chances. Your guidance has inspired me to make the most of every positive opportunity. I pray for your continued strength and place your life in God’s hands. God bless you, Grandpa! Nana Kofi 40 The Birthday Journal
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From the very beginning, Papa has been a constant presence in my life. I’ve known him since childhood—he was always there, one of the adults in the background, aloof yet approachable. However, it wasn’t until I reached my twenties that our relationship truly began to take shape. As I started picking him up from Heathrow Airport during his visits to London, what began as simple car rides quickly evolved into meaningful conversations. Those moments marked the beginning of a relationship that would become personal, where Papa stepped into a role I had long needed in my life— that of a father figure. I lost my father at a young age, and growing up without him, I often found myself seeking guidance, someone to turn to in moments of doubt or indecision. Papa became that person for me. He was always there with advice, ready to listen and help me through the complexities of adulthood. It was during these years that I came to see him not just as my brother-in-law but as a mentor, a guide, and a man I deeply admired. If I had to choose one quality of Papa’s that has left the most lasting impact on me, it would be his integrity. In a world where honesty often feels like a rare commodity, especially among those in positions of power, Papa stood out. He lived a life of service, making decisions rooted in honesty and integrity, and he did so without ever seeking undue wealth or recognition. He wasn’t extraordinarily wealthy, but he lived within his means, and he did so with pride. His example taught me that true success isn’t measured by material wealth but by the contentment that comes from living a life of integrity. Papa’s marriage to my sister also provided me with practical lessons. As I grew older and gained more insight into their relationship, I noticed that they didn’t take themselves too seriously and approached life’s challenges with humour and lightness. This became clear tome as a key ingredient in the longevity of their marriage. One of the most priceless lessons Papa taught me was about accepting one’s lot in life. When I turned to him for advice, especially during moments of frustration, he would listen patiently and then offer this simple piece of wisdom: “That is your lot, so bear it with humility.” It was a reminder that life is full of decisions—some we make ourselves, and others that are made for us. Regardless of how we arrive at our circumstances, the key is to accept them with grace and make the best of what we have. These words have stayed with me over the years and continue to shape how I face challenges, whether in marriage, work, or any other aspect of life. Happy 90th Birthday, Papa! Thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me. Your life, your example, and your wisdomwill continue to inspire me for years to come. Wisdom Papa Style By Kojo Baidoe-Ansah 46 The Birthday Journal
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