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Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size But when I start to tell them, They think I’m telling lies. I say, It’s in the reach of my arms, The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It’s the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can’t touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them, They say they still can’t see. I say, It’s in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. Now you understand Just why my head’s not bowed. I don’t shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing, It ought to make you proud. I say, It’s in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need for my care. ’Cause I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. B Y M A Y A A N G E L O PROLOGUE Phenomenal Woman 4 The Birthday Journal
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December 28th, 1973 Bea’s maternity home, Tema. There sat my twenty-one-yearold unmarried mother, Josephine Ewurama Sackey, on her hospital bed, looking at me, her newborn baby, lovingly. She was awed by my beauty, with my head full of black curly hair, my very beautiful face, and my small lips. How proud she had been when her friends came around that afternoon, oohing and aahing, as they gushed over me, saying to her that I was no ordinary baby. What a loss it would have been if she had aborted me. That is what she had meant to do when she first found out about the pregnancy, after all, at that time my father did not know about it. I would not blame her, as it stood; she already had a son with my father, a taxi driver who was ten years older than her, but he was an unreliable father at the time. However, my father’s friends got wind of the pregnancy and told him. In order to get her to keep the pregnancy, my father caught her off guard with a bizarre story, one Ember of youth in which he claimed to have been warned by a diviner that his girlfriend was pregnant and was contemplating an abortion, which if she did, she would die. That scared my mother, and that was how she carried me full term. Yet as she looked at me, she wondered how she would provide for her small family with this newmouth to feed, wondered whether in her young inexperienced state, she would ever be able to give us even an average life, whether we would be able to attend school, to be well-clothed, to have three square meals each day. And she had cause to worry because, true to his form, our father abandoned us, leaving her to fend for two children all by herself. Although I was a child and ignorant of the happenings around me, my mother would later relay to me the misery, lack, and hardship we endured during the period until she met my stepfather. She named me Juliet Hagan. My earliest memories are of my mother leaving us with our grandmother and going off somewhere. I was only three years old, but in a way, I could sense my mother’s sadness as she pushed us towards our grandmother on the day she was leaving. “Be good children, okay?” she said before hugging my brother and me one more time. Then, she got up hurriedly to put her suitcases together JohnMac Christian 6 The Birthday Journal
so that we would not see the tears welling up in her eyes. That was the last time I sawmy mother for a very long time. As I grew older, I found out that my mother had left for Germany to be with my stepdad. We grew up with our grandmother, spending the first year in Tema. Then, we left for Kyebi because that was my grandmother’s village, and she preferred living there. Grandmother was very kind and loving, but I really longed for my mother in my formative years. It felt as if there was some emptiness in my life. As a child, I was very precocious, loving to be seen and heard and doing all it took to achieve that. Take, for instance, me at six at church on Christmas day, with the normal Christmas baby christening taking place. I watched in fascination as mother after mother, each dressed in a white kaba and slit, their hair covered with white head ties, carried their chubby-cheeked babies wrapped in soft white wooly fabrics towards the front of the church. Looking at the round-faced black baby doll in my hands, I decided that she had to be baptized, that she had to have a name. So, as soon as the last of the women joined the group in front, I cradled my doll to my chest and hurried after her, oblivious to the dismay on my grandmother’s face and the laughter that was building up in the congregation. The ushers hurried towards me in a bid to whisk me away from the front of the church, but the officiating minister intervened. Looking amusedly at my doll, she commended me on having a black baby doll instead of a white one as everyone else seemed to have in those days. Then, she asked what the name of my baby was. That was 7 The Birthday Journal
how precocious I was as a child. The doll baby was a present frommy mother. My grandmother would give it to me at Christmas and then take it back after the festivities, hide it in her room, and then give it back the following Christmas. She did not want me to ruin it; after all, it was the one thing that reminded me of my mother. When I was nine years old, my mother returned home, spurred by reports of my brother and me being constantly sick. She feared the worst for us. By this time, she had two other daughters with my stepfather. Upon her return, we moved back to live with her and my stepfather in Tema, where she registered us in a preparatory school, and that was where I attended classes two to six. Growing up, we were not so wealthy. As children, we would wake up very early in the morning to go hawking to help make ends meet. We hawked many things: plantains, yams, soap, etc. However, we were a very closeknit family. My stepfather played an active role in our lives. Unfortunately, my biological father never really cared about me and my brother. The first time I saw him was when he came over to Kyebi to try to see us. My grandmother was so angry that she drove him away. I remember her sternly asking me to go inside, so I had to go and hide. Later on, my uncles had a good talk with my grandmother, after which she allowed him to take us with him to Tema during one of our holidays. Sadly, it was an unpleasant holiday because his wife did not look pleased with us being around. She pretended to be alright with us whenever our father was around, but she really wasn’t. We never visited him again. I did see him a couple of times after that, first at one of my boyfriend’s house, and then another time when I boarded his taxi. That day was a bit sad because he did not even recognize me. I had to introduce myself to him. He asked me where I was going, and when I told him I was going to the beach, he begged me not to swim because he did not want me to drown. Only God knows what he meant by that, but for some reason, I couldn’t swim that day. 8 The Birthday Journal
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Afua, as you celebrate turning 50, may the Lord add 50 more years to your life in good health, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and peace. May He bless you and keep you, extending His blessings to the generations after you. May you possess the strength of your grandmother who raised you. Just like your grandma, who enjoyed great health and independence until her passing at 97, I pray for the same for you – that God continues to bless you with excellent health and strength. May you exceed your grandma’s age of 97 and reach 100 in good health. May God bless you and keep you in great health and strength. May you continue to thrive and accomplish everything God has planned for you. I love you, Mom. 10 The Birthday Journal
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Time for secondary school, and there I was, my trunk fully packed with provisions, uniforms, and house dresses—all ready. My mother and I boarded public transport and headed for St. Roses Akwatia, my first-choice school. Not only was I precocious, but I was also a very clever child, as reflected in my common entrance results. I was thirteen at the time, but St. Roses School hadn’t granted me boarding status. This proved problematic. How would I come to school as a day student when I lived in Tema? Luckily, one of my mother’s cousins lived in that town, so it was amicably arranged that I should live with him and his family, which I did happily, until one of my aunts heard that my uncle’s children were Rising theashes from 12 The Birthday Journal
all boys and advised my mom to quickly take me out of there. The next option was to attend Aggrey Memorial School, which was my secondchoice school, but my aunt intervened again, citing a lack of discipline. Her own daughter had started out initially at Aggrey Memorial, but she had to pull her out to Holy Child School because of the discipline issues. This left my mother in quite a fix because, unlike my aunt, my mother had very little education and could not pull as many strings. Help eventually came in the form of the Catechist lady who had baptized my doll baby. She had taken an active interest in my life since that incident, inviting me to spend several holidays in her house. She was the one who eventually helped me secure a place at Nifa Secondary School because the headmaster was her friend. One significant thing happened when I was filling out my common entrance forms. Up until that time, I bore my biological father’s name, ‘Juliet Hagan.’ However, when filling out my common entrance forms, my stepdad used his own name as my surname. My mother did not mind; after all, our father did not care for us, and neither did I. I guess I was too young to understand its implications anyway. But that was how I came to be known as ‘Juliet Christian’ instead of Juliet Hagan. 13 The Birthday Journal
Secondary school days were so much fun. I was quite the social butterfly—extroverted, bubbly, and very much liked. Besides, I was considered very beautiful. Unfortunately, for some reason, I did not performwell in my ‘O’ Levels. I could have let this bring me down, but instead, I suddenly felt motivated by the idea that I could achieve any height I desired if I set my mind to it. So, that’s exactly what I did. I retook my exams and gained admission to the Takoradi Polytechnic, now known as the Takoradi Technical University. There, I worked extremely hard, burning the midnight oil, putting in extra effort for research, and cutting back on my social life to achieve academic excellence. I developed the discipline and focus needed to excel in my studies while also balancing my academic pursuits with supporting my mom back home. I must say that my experience at Takoradi Polytechnic was very enjoyable because it marked a phase in my life where determination and effort could yield whatever I aspired to achieve. It was, therefore, not surprising when I earned my Diploma in Business Study. Also, whenever I returned home, I made it a point to assist my momwith her petty trading, which she carried out in her shop located at Tema Community One Main Market. Among all her children, I was the one who consistently helped her at the shop. National Service came next, at the Kumasi Regional Administration, where I worked as a National Service Personnel in 1995. It was during this period that someone drewmy attention to the fact that I could easily winMiss National Service Personnel. As a person, I loved glitz, glitter, and glamour, and I really loved beautiful things, so I thought to myself, “Why not?” It was an amazing period of my life, especially the final round of the contest. As the MC called the final three contestants to the stage, I held my breath. The whole place was so quiet you could hear a pin drop, and the suspense was so thick you could cut it with a knife. All three of us were beautiful, but it felt surreal when the MC’s voice boomed over the microphone, saying, “And the winner for tonight is… Juliet Christian!” The spectators erupted in a loud cheer. I had won! I had wonMiss NASPA, Ashanti region! It was simply amazing! The year was 1995. After that, people approached me to participate inMiss Ghana. Three individuals wanted to train me for the pageant, trying to convince me of my beauty and intelligence. However, I was hesitant and scared. I had to talk to my mom. “Mom, three people have asked me at different times to join the Miss Ghana Pageant.” At that time, it seemed like a business. I don’t know if it’s still the same. They choose you, groom you. Then, my mother said, “Afua, don’t go and do it. If you do, you will fall prey to men. The men will use you!” So I heeded my mom’s advice; I never take her guidance lightly. 14 The Birthday Journal
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I was once told a story by an uncle about when I was three years old. According to him, he came to our house one day and sawme sitting on a stool. Excited to see me, he tried to carry me from the stool, but I clamped my legs to it and would not let go. In such a way that when he picked me up, he carried me with it. Then I said, “Yeah, I am a beautiful airplane.” Thinking back on this, I wonder whether I was predicting my future then, that I would work in the aviation industry. After I graduated fromTakoradi Polytechnic, I attended a secretarial school with the aim of pursuing a career as a Personal Assistant. I pursued this for a couple of years, working with several multinational companies, including AFGO Fisheries. Later, I attended the Ghana Airways Training School, training as a Ticketing Officer. I loved the airline industry because of the glamour it exuded. I guess I was carried away by their uniforms. I love beautiful things. When I was much younger, I thought I would be an actress and star in movies. Initially, I wanted to be an air hostess, but I needed a second language to do that, preferably French. However, I really wasn’t interested in going to school to study French. So, I first joined Alitalia as ground staff, working with them for almost eight years, mostly doing ticketing reservation. Afterward, I joined Emirates, where I worked for nine years, doing ticketing reservation and telemarketing. Ambition Flameof 18 The Birthday Journal
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I emerged as a shining star among my colleagues at Emirates, recognized for my effectiveness as a solution provider. Customers willingly waited for their turn, preferring to have Juliet attend to their needs. However, with such recognition came numerous interpersonal challenges and instances of witch-hunting. Eventually, managers were dispatched fromDubai to address some of the office challenges in Accra. During the review of the problems, it became clear that I had been set up by the then-manager. Despite my decision to leave the company, they surprised me by granting direct access to issue tickets on Emirates. My explanation of the situation convinced them, and Emirates encouraged me to continue my career in the industry and work with them as an agent. Seizing the opportunity in 2009, I founded Jaflinks Travel & Tours Limited, initially focusing on selling tickets exclusively for Emirates. However, by 2012, the company obtained its IATA license, allowing it to issue tickets for all international airlines. The primary focus of the business is selling tickets, including tours. I concentrated on ticketing to serve more clients. Despite the small profit margins per ticket and the need to manage operating costs, this approach has resulted in a successful business. Even with ticketing, I prioritize corporate clients. Through strong relationships with banks, Jaflinks can pre-finance some well-established corporate clients and efficiently support their travel needs. With years of experience in the ticketing sector, I not only act as the boss but also seamlessly step into the role of a Ticketing Reservation Officer. While Jaflinks is often associated with me as my flagship business, it’s important to recognize that it represents just one part of my corporate portfolio. Beyond Jaflinks, my endeavors extend into Energy, Pharmaceuticals, Real Estate ventures, and Farming – domains where my caliber and achievements find deeper roots. As the Country Director of OPG Energy Ventures Ltd, a listed entity on the London Stock Exchange, I’m actively involved in the establishment of a 550-megawatt solar utility plant in Ghana. This initiative, as an Independent Power Producer (IPP), aims to provide the nation with clean and renewable energy, contributing to the global effort to preserve our planet. Teaming up with NSL Group Limited, a major wholesale distributor of pharmaceuticals based in the UK, stands out as one of my successful international ventures. With the support of my team, I am determined to transform it into a significant medical supplier in the ECOWAS Region. Additionally, my involvement inMillennium Property Development in the UAE, with its ongoing international expansion, adds another layer to my diverse and global business portfolio. I consider myself fortunate to navigate these varied and international business landscapes, each contributing to a rich weave of professional achievements. “ 21 The Birthday Journal
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One fine day, I walked along my street with my two big mobile phones in my hands, hurrying to my friend’s place to charge my phone. There was no light at home, yet I had just started my new job, and I definitely needed some means of communication. Hearing a car slow down behind me, I stopped and looked behind. Sure enough, there was a car, and it was stopping. Then a young woman stepped out, greeted me, and said, “Please, my brother would like to have a chat with you,” whichwas a bit surprising, but I stopped. He asked me where I was going, which I told him. “Why don’t you hop in, and I will give you a lift there?” he asked, sounding nice and chatty, so I had no reservations about accepting his offer. He drove me to my friend’s, but she had no light, then to his place, and he had no light, so he offered to drive me to his friend’s, and luckily he had light. So I left the phones there. He promised to bring them to me the following day, which he did, coming all the way to my office at Alitalia to bring them. TheinfernoOf challenges 24 The Birthday Journal
Hmm, I thought, looking him up and down when I saw him the second day. I had not had the opportunity to assess him the day before. He was cute, exactly what I liked in a man; tall, dark, and handsome. I literally felt myself shaking and feeling very attracted to him. To make things even better, he came across as smart and intelligent. Prior to that, I had never gone out with a young man. I had always dated older men, and they often pampered me. It turned out the young man, whose name was Francis Achemdey, felt the same way about me because he did come back to my office the next day, this time to make a booking for Switzerland, which I did. It was when he returned from Switzerland that we officially started dating. To tell the truth, I have always thought of marriage as the ultimate. I don’t know why, but I cherish marriage. I always wanted to be like Kofi Annan’s wife. So I was always looking to marry somebody who is enlightened. I knewwhat Iwanted. We got married on 5th June 1999. My marriage has been nice, but it has been equally toxic. I suppose that I had really high expectations of how a marriage should be, so I tend to easily get disappointed when we hit a rough patch, but we have been together for twentyfour years, and we really love each other so maybe there is something strong binding us together. I have always thought of marriage as the ultimate. I don’t know why, but I cherish marriage. “ 25 The Birthday Journal
Francis Kojo Achedemy Juliet, my partner in this journey, is the vibrant thread that adds color to every chapter of our life together. From the quiet moments of intimate cuddles to the passionate kisses that echo through our years, these are the snapshots I hold closest to my heart. Simple, yet profound, they are the essence of us. Juliet’s personality is a gentle force that shapes our journey. Her readiness and willingness to make our marriage work are like a compass guiding us through the complexities of life. She doesn’t shy away from reaching the root cause of issues, always receptive to resolving them amicably. There’s no struggle to fit into some perfect mold; instead, she embraces the imperfections that make us beautifully human. I’ve seen Juliet face challenges with a grace that leaves me in awe. She doesn’t dwell on setbacks but, instead, forgives and rebuilds new paths. It’s a resilience that transforms adversity into an opportunity for growth. Her approach to family life is nothing short of extraordinary. Juliet is the architect of our home, always ready to contribute to its growth and harmony. Her investment in our children is a testament to her strength—tough but undoubtedly worthwhile. What I appreciate the most about our relationship is the way Juliet pours her life into our children. It’s a tough but worthwhile investment that makes me feel super-human. Her selfless dedication to our family is the cornerstone of our love. We’ve navigated challenges, like the initial difficulty in effective communication. Yet, through individual counseling, we’ve discovered a better way to communicate—one that’s both effective and lovely. Unforgettable moments with Juliet are etched in our shared history. From the joy of her giving birth to our first son to the adventures across five continents, from the heart of the Amazon to boat rides along the Yellow River, these moments are the highlights of our life. As Juliet’s birthday dawns, I reflect on the past two and a half decades. I feel blessed to have her in my life, the most beautiful person I’ve ever met. There are no words to express the gratitude for the love and warmth she has given me. On her golden birthday, I wish her a day surrounded by candlelight and flowers, wearing her favorite dress, and smiling the brightest smile—a day as special as she is. Happy Birthday, Juliet. Here’s to many more chapters in our beautiful story. 26 The Birthday Journal
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My Babies My marriage is blessed with three beautiful children: Craig, Daryl, and Jenevieve. The two boys are in the United States with my mother, but my daughter is here with me. I remember the day I took them to the airport, fourteen years ago, all three of us doing a group hug and crying. I never intended to raise my children in America, especially the boys. I wanted to do it here, but I wasn’t in the right state of mind at that time. I was depressed and didn’t feel mentally able to take care of them. Besides, I felt guilty about constantly leaving them with nannies. Also, I was working so hard in the industry, waking up early each morning to go to work and returning late at night while they were asleep; I almost never saw them enough. Above all, my marriage was not in a good place at the time. It wasn’t easy for me at all. My daughter Jenevieve was still a baby; I was sure I could manage her. My parents and siblings had since relocated to the United States, so there was really no family to turn to. That accounted for my sending the boys away to my mother in the United States. Besides, they are Americans. I had them there. We gave them a good life, expensive holidays, everything money could buy, but I want more for them. In a way, I feel that I have not been able to do for my boys what I really want to do, unlike what I have done for my daughter. However, God knows best. In a way, I feel that I have not been able to do for my boys what I really want to do, unlike what I have done for my daughter. However, God knows best “ 28 The Birthday Journal
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Craig Achedemy My most cherished memory with my mom took place in Ghana, where she patiently taught me how to drive a manual shift. Despite the time it took and her numerous corrections, she persisted until I could smoothly change gears. Once I mastered it, she entrusted me with running various errands. My mom is both compassionate and ambitious. When she sets her sights on something, she pursues it relentlessly, stopping at nothing until she achieves her goals. This determination was evident when her travel agency regained its license. She spared no effort in expanding the business, and her hard work paid off with tremendous success. This experience taught me the invaluable lesson of facing challenges head-on and never giving up. Her parenting style, a perfect blend of love and directness, made me feel at ease around her and taught me how to express love to others properly. One of the things I admire most about Juliet is her unconditional love. Whether in good times or bad, she is consistently by my side, lending a listening ear and motivating me to persevere. In 2007, my momwelcomed my little sister into the world, and during a period of multiple operations, she exhibited remarkable strength and determination to ensure a healthy pregnancy. As we approach the future, my heartfelt prayer is that God continues to bless you with good health and wisdom. May you keep growing wiser, and may your love continue to enrich our family in the years to come. I love youMom! We love you mom 30 The Birthday Journal
Daryl Achedemy My mom is caring, hardworking, and strong—traits that define her. When storms hit her business, she stood tall. I learned that love can weather any tempest, a lesson etched deep in my heart. Mom’s decisions shaped who I am today. Without certain choices she made, I wouldn’t be me. Transparency and love became the guiding principles of our family. Mom faced challenges, each molding her character. Her life is a testament to triumph through adversity. An award gleams, recognizing her indomitable spirit. This is a birthday wish for Mom—a chorus of love, life, and blessings. “Happy birthday mummy, more life, more blessings. I love you.” As her son, I cherishMom as the most beautiful, caring, and strongest woman. “She’s my first love,” a sentiment that time can’t erase. Looking ahead, my wish for Mom is simple: happiness and the fulfillment of her goals in the next decade. Through my eyes, Mom emerges as the architect of our family’s legacy, a resilient spirit, and a beacon of love. In every word, in every memory, the symphony of Mom’s life plays on—a testament to a love that transcends time. Jenevieve Achedemy My childhood is painted with travel memories – fromDubai to Germany to the UK, withMom, as my adventurous companion. Mom’s personality is a blend of brilliance and care. When COVID hit, her ticket sales dwindled, but she stood strong, teaching me to face adversity head-on and never give up. Her approach to family life is a beacon. Caring for us, she molds me to spread love to others. The core of our relationship is her genuine love, seen and felt. Through family arguments, Mom always found a way to mend, shaping the resilient woman she is today. An award for most outstanding female in travel and tours is a testament to her triumphs. Now, let me tell you about the woman I love, Juliet Christian. She’s my heart and soul, the one who makes me laugh and smile. A random TikTok session on my bed and a memorable girl’s trip to the UK—Mom and I became closer, stormy snores and all. As the next decade dawns, my wish for Mom is simple: to be a billionaire so she can sponsor me. Mom, you’re the best, and my love for you knows no bounds. 31 The Birthday Journal
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When I reflect on where I’ve come from, it feels like a journey of rising from the ashes. My early childhood was challenging, but I refused to let those circumstances hinder my progress. Instead, I’ve always seized opportunities, leveraging the favor God has bestowed upon me, making success achievable without excessive struggle. Perhaps, I can say I’m a favored person. Frommy childhood, whatever I engaged in seemed to flourish effortlessly. Even when selling goods as a child, my pan was always empty, all my items sold, earning scoldings for my siblings who didn’t fare as well. My designated spot for morning sweeping even brought unexpected blessings, with money consistently appearing. This was my source for buying snacks at school. As I grew, I consistently attracted generous boyfriends. Today, my travel and tours business, unlike others, doesn’t face the same struggles. I easily secure jobs others find elusive. flightof the The phoenix 35 The Birthday Journal
Managing my own small company has allowed me to learn various aspects, from proposals to finance, running operations, and fostering internal growth. It has become the best thing to happen in realizing my dreams. I love the environment, culture, people, my team, and the work we’ve created together. In just a few years, we’ve elevated our experience to compete with well-known and successful travel and tour operators in Ghana. As I ascend through the ranks within the corporate space, I believe I represent women in business and those aspiring to establish their own businesses. Despite my busy schedule, I managed to earn an Executive BA Certificate from the Ghana Institute of Management & Public Administration (GIMPA). I’ve traveled globally, attending seminars and trade conferences, aiming to provide excellent service to my clients. Growing up with my grandmother shaped my empathy for those in need, as she was a giver and helper. I’ve always found ways to give back to those less fortunate, reflecting my own journey. That’s my gratitude! Everyone has a unique story and coping mechanism. Everyone requires support and help. To me, being a good leader is about being empathetic, transparent, true to oneself, and a good listener. As a matured executive and leader, I believe I have the platform to do a lot of good, utilizing time, energy, and resources to give back. As a benefactor, I take joy in sponsoring tuition for less privileged children and collaborating with various charities and single mothers. In terms of my legacy, I aim to focus on ensuring every girl child has the opportunity to emerge as leaders in the future. As I continue my journey, there’s a topic that resonates deeply with me—the safety I feel around the farm and animals. Since my childhood days in Kyebi, a profound passion for nature has been ingrained in me. The rhythm of nature, from the enchanting forest to the majestic mountains and valleys, has always captivated me. The undulating contours, nourished by crystal-clear water from converging streams, create a symphony that brings me unparalleled peace and inspiration. My connection with the “ I take joy in sponsoring tuition for less privileged children and collaborating with various charities and single mothers. 36 The Birthday Journal
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natural world goes beyond appreciation; it extends to a profound sense of responsibility to care for and protect it. The harmonious relationship between agriculture and the environment is a cause dear to my heart. In my secondary school days, I excelled in both theoretical and practical agriculture courses, establishing myself as one of the best record holders. The harmonious relationship between agriculture and the environment is a cause dear to my heart Expanding upon my parents’ orange orchard, I’ve ventured into organic crop and animal farm development. This endeavor allows my discerning clients who visit the farm for recreation to immerse themselves in the farm experience—harvesting produce, collecting poultry eggs, hock fishing from the pond, feeding of animals, and engaging in outdoor cooking of fresh harvests from the fields,. The pride of my farm includes a collection of geese and peacocks, pivotal in fostering my love for animals and deepening my appreciation for nature and farming. Beyond personal satisfaction, my commitment extends to the community. The introduction of high milk and meat-producing goats to the farm aims to benefit local orphanages. The dedication to supplying these orphanages with nutritious fresh milk reflects my commitment to giving back to my community and the less privileged. The God factor I am a spiritual person, born into the Presbyterian faith. Life’s experiences have brought me closer to God, leading me to frequent church attendance. In the past, I took God for granted, feeling as if everything came effortlessly. My mantra was, “Nyame ahyira me” – God blesses me. I believed prayer was unnecessary since everything I touched seemed to work seamlessly. “ 38 The Birthday Journal
I vividly recall a moment during a meal when my mother asked me to pray. Back then, she had Bible quotations displayed on the wall. My response was, “Ewurade Eno na ebo hor no.” Thankfully, this perspective has evolved, and I am grateful for the change. I recognize that, left to my own devices, I might not have developed such a reverence for God. It is God who has drawn me towards Him, and for that, I am truly thankful. Embracing Life I am a fun-loving person with a keen focus on achieving my desires. My appreciation for beautiful things and people is inherent, and I consistently seek quality in everything I do. While many desire such excellence, I have been fortunate to easily attain it. Traveling brings me immense joy, yet I find solace in my own company, relishing moments of solitude that span several days. It’s an aspect of me that I sometimes find intriguing. Today, I embrace who I am – occasionally reserved, occasionally shy, but always striving for accomplishment and positive results. Working in a team, I sense an occasional intimidation, perhaps stemming from misconceptions about my lifestyle. In reality, I prefer simplicity and strive to maintain a pleasant and uncomplicated life. Good friends hold a special place in my heart, and I cherish the genuine connections I’ve cultivated over the years. While I don’t expect too much from friendships, I value the simplicity and authenticity they bring. I cannot tell my story without a specific mention of my grandmother, Yaa Grace Brako, from the Royal Adansi family of Kyebi Adadientem. She was renowned for her wisdom, leadership, and philanthropic roles in Kyebi Bronikrome. It is widely acknowledged that I embody many of her characteristics, and I continue to carry her influence as Odeshie. She bestowed the name Ewuraama Keteke upon my mother, and with both bloodlines coursing through my veins, I find that I naturally rise to the occasion in critical situations as Afua Keteke! Looking forward, I aspire to be remembered as a mother who deeply loved her children and a wife who genuinely cherished her husband. Despite challenges in my childhood, I acknowledge the love that surrounded me, even if it took some time for others to truly understand who I was. Whether surrounded by genuine individuals or those wearing a facade, I am grateful for the respect and love shown to me. In reflection, I express gratitude for standing tall on my own two feet, resilient in the face of challenges. As I embrace the person I am today, I eagerly look forward to the great years ahead, filled with love, accomplishments, and cherished moments. I believed prayer was unnecessary since everything I touched seemed to work seamlessly. “ 39 The Birthday Journal
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Joyce Bour Juliet’s amazing charisma is magnetic, making her one of the kindest and smartest people I know. When we first met at the YWCA over three decades ago in Ghana, it felt like an instant connection, and we became fast friends. As you step into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for you is that God grants all your heart’s desires and blesses you with many more wonderful years to come. Benedict Sackitey Juliet’s simplicity is a rare gem—she effortlessly blends sophistication with a touch of simple swag that’s truly captivating. Our memorable moments transcend borders, but one stands out: the day she blocked my phone for a much-needed reality check. As she steps into the next decade, my wish is for her to blossom in spirit and stature, becoming the world’s most successful and admired corporate figure. Cheers to a future filled with boundless success and uncharted adventures! Rita Amanor One thing that fills my heart with admiration for you is your profound respect for all. It’s a rare quality that sets you apart and makes you truly special. In the depth of our friendship, your respect has woven threads of warmth and kindness. Oh, do you remember the time we spent together at Ada ‘Treasure Island’ in Ghana? Those moments were nothing short of magical, creating memories that dance with the waves and sparkle in the sunlight. As you embark on this new decade of your life, my wish for you is as sincere as it gets. I pray that every secret prayer you’ve whispered to the heavens finds its way to the ears of God Almighty. May the next ten years be a symphony of answered prayers, each note playing a melody of joy, success, and fulfillment. W E L L W I S S H E 46 The Birthday Journal
Uncle Frank To my lovely and pleasant niece, Juliet, the memories we’ve shared are countless, always sweet and endearing. As you step into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for you is boundless happiness, love in abundance, and a reservoir of good health. Adelaide Otoo (Amegatcher) Juliet’s sweetness and everlasting smile have been a joy to witness. Our bond goes back over 35 years, from our secondary school days—she’s more than a friend; she’s my forever school daughter! As she steps into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for her is a life filled with enduring joy, prosperity, and the fulfillment of all her heart’s desires. AMEN! Gifty Sefah As my little sister, Juliet never ceases to amaze me with her knack for adventurous antics. Her constant cheerfulness and remarkable sense of humor ensure there’s never a dull moment. Juliet embodies a delightful blend of annoyance and sweetness, creating a perfect equilibrium. Despite occasional disagreements, our love for each other is limitless. Our journey began at Guangzhou Airport, approximately 14 years ago, marking the start of a remarkable friendship. I vividly recall her witty comment at a party, humorously deeming it a potential cause for depression due to its lack of excitement. Those moments, filled with laughter, defined the beauty of our connection. As Juliet celebrates her Golden Jubilee, my wish for her in the next decade is one of gratitude. I am thankful for Juliet’s presence in my life and extend heartfelt birthday wishes. May the Holy Spirit guide her steps and fulfill her deepest desires. Here’s to good health, a long and fulfilling life, and the abundance of beautiful moments. May we share laughter and smiles at your centennial celebration! Kenneth Addae Juliet holds a special place in my heart as the most polite and caring person I have ever known. Her kindness and consideration for others have made her not just a friend but a person I’ve grown to love dearly. Our paths crossed through the introduction of Mrs. Edwina Banda, and since then, Juliet has been the best lady friend I’ve had the God’s grace to be acquainted with in Ghana. The moments we’ve shared have been filled with warmth, laughter, and a genuine sense of friendship. As Juliet steps into the next decade of her life, my wish for her is wrapped in love and divine blessings. May God’s grace surround her, and may every wish she harbors, now and in the future, materialize in the name of Jesus. Here’s to a decade filled with love, joy, and the manifestation of dreams. Nana Saah Darteh Oheneafrewo 1st Juliet, my favorite niece, holds a special place in my heart for so many reasons. She is incredibly humble, down to earth, and consistently shows respect to everyone, regardless of their status. Her faith in God adds a beautiful dimension to her character, and I appreciate her dearly; she is very close to my heart. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Reflecting on our great moments together, the memories of Juliet visiting me in London stand out vividly. Our adventures in Mayfair, the awe-inspiring visit to THE SHARD, and our shared laughter over a meal with playful decorations (though not enough to fill me up) are etched in my mind. She always teased me about my table manners, creating moments that are both precious and amusing. As Juliet embarks on the next decade of her life, my prayers for her are sincere and heartfelt. I pray for long life, abundant blessings, resounding success, an overflow of love, and prosperity that knows no bounds. Here’s to a future filled with joy, prosperity, and the fulfillment of every dream. 47 The Birthday Journal
Emma Juliet’s authenticity is a beacon that draws admiration. She is so real, a beautiful soul that radiates genuine warmth. Juliet’s laughter is a constant thread, weaving joy into the fabric of our friendship. Whether it’s in deep conversations or light-hearted banter, she is easy-going and always a pleasure to talk to. As Juliet steps into the next decade, my wish for her is simple yet profound. I wish her good health, boundless happiness, and a life filled with joy that knows no end. Ama Ahema Kwablah Your smile and kindness are capable of soothing even the most challenging situations. It’s a quality that I deeply love, knowing that your warmth can bring a touch of sunshine to any moment. Our shared memories, especially during our school days in Ghana, are etched in the corridors of time. However, one standout moment was during my wedding. Your presence was not just witness to the joyous occasion but also a testament to your kind heart. Your goodwill messages to my husband, urging him to take good care of me, were words that resonated with love and care. May each day of this newmilestone be a testament to the radiance you bring into the world. Adwowa Boohene Juliet’s love and care for her children stand as a testament to the depth of her heart. It’s a quality that I deeply love, knowing that her nurturing spirit creates a haven of love and warmth. As Juliet steps into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for her is one of profound significance. May she experience a true knowledge of Christ, a journey that deepens her connection with the divine and brings a spiritual richness to her life. Here’s to a decade of growth, wisdom, and a closeness to the source of eternal love. Zynab Ayesha Passah Juliet, you are truly a sweetheart. Your humility, love, and vibrant spirit make you a gem. Above all, you are a loving mum, a role you fulfill with grace. Our recent adventure in Dubai, particularly our night out at Bla Bla, is a memory that sparkles with laughter. The encounter with young men attempting to charm us added a touch of hilarity to the night, making it an unforgettable chapter in our shared stories. As Juliet steps into the next decade, my wish for her is an abundance of blessings. May good health be her constant companion, long life her faithful ally, and may an abundance of grace shower upon her every step. Joana Attuah Your ambition is truly admirable—a beacon of determination that has led you to remarkable heights. Your unwavering perseverance is the cornerstone of your success, a quality that never loses hope. The memory of celebrating your Miss NASPA victory in Takoradi remains etched in my heart— an eye-saw of vibrant joy and colorful celebration with friends. As you step into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for you is continued success in every endeavor, the fulfillment of all your dreams, good health, prosperity, and a birthday overflowing with happiness. Carl Maxwell I’ve always admired your boldness and beauty, a combination that makes you truly captivating. One memory that stands out in my mind is our outing with your cousin, who happened to be a friend. Little did I know that you would steal the show with your comedic talents, making it a day filled with laughter and joy. As you embark on the journey of the next decade, my wish for you is simple yet profound. May your life be filled with an abundance of Christ’s grace, guiding you through every step and blessing you with peace and joy. 48 The Birthday Journal
Abena Twum One of the things I truly love about you is your simplicity and easy-going nature. As you step into the next decade, my heartfelt wish for you is the very best. May good health be your constant companion, long life your faithful ally, and may prosperity bless you with more 8abundance. Here’s to a future filled with joy, success, and, of course, more money! Faustina Ampadu Your sincerity has always been a source of warmth, and it’s something I truly cherish about you. The joyous occasion of my daughter’s wedding is a memory I will forever cherish. We were all so happy and had a wonderful time together, creating moments that will be forever etched in my heart. May happiness envelop your entire family, and may God grant you the strength to overcome any challenges that may come your way. Here’s to a future brimming with joy, and boundless blessings. Nana Yaa Omane-Peprah Juliet’s humility and endearing spirit has always shone brightly, creating a space of warmth and joy. As you reach your Golden Jubilee, my dearest Kwaebibrim Princess, I offer my heartfelt prayers for you. May Jehovah continue to bless you abundantly, order your steps, protect and preserve you, keeping you blameless. May the peace, the shalom of God, be a constant companion for you and your beautiful family today and always. Enjoy every moment of your new age, Juliet! Yvonne Garbrah My darling Juliet! Your sense of humor is a treasure that never fails to brighten the room, and your remarkable ability to turn negatives into positives makes you truly special. No matter the situation, you have a magical way of calming others down, and for that, I’m grateful to call you my big sister and confidant. As you embark on this new decade, my wish for you is simple: may all your heart’s desires come to fruition. Here’s to celebrating 50 remarkable years and toasting to 50 more years of joy, laughter, and incredible moments. Happy Birthday!!! Linda Obeng My dearest sister, I have always truly admired how you never back down until you get things done. Your determination is simply inspiring! Reflecting on our unforgettable teen years at Nifa Secondary, we were the dynamic duo, Thing 1 and Thing 2, causing mischief and creating lifelong memories. Sneaking out to our teachers’ quarters, our school mothers, the camaraderie—we were a force to be reckoned with! And who can forget your memorable proverb in Twi, “Kwasea shua yentia so mprenu” at just 13 years old? As you step into this new decade, my wish for you is nothing but the best. May good health, long life, and a continuous stream of joy accompany you on this journey. Looking forward to more family pics and cherished moments together. 49 The Birthday Journal
Sally Andrews Juliet’s friendliness is the quality I cherish most. We forged our friendship in Ghana when she was around 17, and our adventures exploring different places were filled with laughter and joy. One particularly memorable moment unfolded when I introduced her to my friend Denise’s house for the first time. In her typical friendly manner, Juliet engaged in a lively conversation with Denise’s uncle, as if they were long-lost friends. To our surprise, both burst into laughter, revealing that they had just met. This illustrates the kind of person Juliet is—friendly, approachable, and always nice. As she steps into the next decade, my wish for Afua is many more years filled with joy and fulfillment, accompanied by increasing wealth. Your wise words, “even the sea has room for rain, so there is always room for more money,” resonate deeply. Love you loads! ❤ Jane Awoonor To know Juliet Christian is to love her: a classy lady with the gentlest and sweetest of spirits. Elevate Executive Ladies Club is honored to have you as a cherished member and our Welfare Executive Extraordinaire. Your dedication, contributions, and gracefulness to the club cannot be overstated or overlooked. We look forward to many more exploits with you. Today, we celebrate a wonderful lady who is stylish and a sister’s keeper. Here’s to love, wisdom, good health, and happiness. May God continue to bless you. We celebrate you today because you deserve it. Happy birthday, dear Juliet. May we continue to build wonderful memories. Happy birthday, woman of valor. With love and light, Elevate Executive Ladies. Lady Nicole Christian Having a big sister is like having a best friend you can’t get rid of. My big sister is someone who will keep your secrets and always be there to help and understand you like no other. Aka: my fighting and konkonsa partner . You know I love you Great memories I cherish are the bond we share, through every moment, good or bad. Thank goodness you entered this world, so I didn’t have to deal with our parents alone! May this birthday bring you the strength to achieve your dreams and the courage to face any challenges that come your way. Happy birthday! Tatyana Edem Aglobitse Happy Birthday, Afua! Your simplicity paired with a classy persona makes you truly special. Your amazing sense of fashion and the gift of being a good listener set you apart. We crossed paths at GIMPA in 2017, and since then, our conversations about fashion brands and dreamy travel destinations have been a highlight. Your lovely and freespirited nature adds a wonderful touch to every interaction. Afua, you’re not just a friend but a keeper of good friendships and things. My heartfelt wish for you is another 50 years filled with love, light, and life. Keep shining like the diamond you are, Afua. Thanks for everything. Love you! 50 The Birthday Journal
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