August 2015 “I can’t take it anymore,” Gloria said, squeezing fake tears from her eyes. “Ellis, I think something is terribly wrong with me. My eyelid won’t stop twitching, my knee feels like it’s humming, and now I swear my left ear just popped on its own.” “Hmmh,” Ellis sighed, worry creasing his brows, his mouth puckered in disbelief. Was what he was hearing true? Health was not something to joke about. “You don’t know,” Gloria sniffed, already thinking of ways to spice up her story. She had to get Ellis out of his house so the crew could set up for his surprise birthday party. “Please, can we go somewhere so I can tell you all about it?” She leaned in, looking as distressed as she could manage. Ellis was instantly anxious. “Sure, sure. Let’s go to Fridays and talk.” Gloria smiled inwardly — her plan was working. She was part of an elaborate plan led by Ellis’s wife, Maame— a plan Ellis would have shut down in a heartbeat. He hated surprises, and if given the slightest warning, would have come up with ten solid reasons why this was a terrible idea. At Fridays, he ordered drinks. Gloria eyed hers longingly but kept her act tight. “Sorry, I can’t drink. Caffeine might make my twitch worse.” She added a few well-timed sniffles before launching into her dramatic list of “symptoms” — the eyelid spasm, the mysterious knee humming, and how she might have contracted a rare tropical nerve disorder from a salad. “Ei! And you’re going through all that?” Ellis asked, his face now etched with genuine concern. “Hmm… excuse me, I have to use the ladies’,” Gloria said, slipping away to call Bekoe and Burgess. “Give us an extra fifteen minutes,” she whispered, hiding a smile before returning with her best miserable face. Minutes later, she sighed. “Let’s go — their restroom was awful. Can I stop by your place to use yours before heading home?” When they got home, Ellis opened the door to usher her in, but— “Surprise!” his friends shouted, making him step back before breaking into a grin. “Happy birthday!!!” Ellis’s eyes instantly found Maame. “You,” he said, pointing at her like she’d just pulled off a high-stakes heist. She grinned, unapologetic. “I told you I could surprise you.” He shook his head, laughing despite himself. She’d won this round — and they both knew it. The prankster had been pranked… and the queen had taken the king. Fast-forward to August 2025 In a recent interview, when Ellis was asked how he’d like to be remembered, his answer was classic Ellis — short, humble, and a little mysterious: “I’d rather let people decide how they remember me.” Well, Ellis… challenge accepted. As he turns the big 6–0, another “operation” is underway. This time, the goal isn’t just to get him out of the house — it’s to capture the man in print. Behind the scenes, calls are flying, WhatsApp chats are buzzing, and side conversations over jollof are in full swing. The mission? A surprise birthday journal — a collection of stories, photos, and tributes from those who know him best. We grilled (lovingly) his friends, family, and coconspirators. The responses came in thick and fast — some touching, some hilarious — painting a vivid portrait of the man behind the name. Time and again, certain words kept popping up: Loyal. Witty. Dedicated. Chef. Compassionate. Courageous. In other words, Ellis is the kind of guy who will give you his last plate of food… but not before making sure it’s seasoned to perfection and served with a joke that makes you snort with laughter. Little does he know, the prankster is about to be pranked again. Only this time, the “trap” won’t vanish in a few hours — it’ll be bound in glossy pages for him to keep forever. Anecdote 2 The Birthday Journal A N E C D OT E
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Loyal Always shows up for family and friends, no matter what. Their glasses chinked in a ‘cheers.’ The dining table, which at the beginning of the night had been laid with a white tablecloth, a tall red-lit candle in the centre, and fine dining ware, now bore the happy signs of a family well-fed and wellloved — empty plates with remnants of chicken marsala, and dessert bowls with faint traces of sweetness. In the background, Kojo Antwi’s Akonoba played softly, its familiar melody wrapping the evening in warmth. Nights like this were a reminder of what mattered most to Ellis. Weekends, for him, were sacred — filled with watching Arsenal matches and Netflix movies, trying his hand at new recipes, and lingering over meals that turned into hours of laughter and conversation. To Ellis, family — and friends who became family — wasn’t just important; it was everything. He carved out time, created space, and never let work overshadow love. He always showed up — emotionally, physically, financially — in all the ways that truly mattered. As the music played on, Ellis’s hand slid under the table to find Asor’s, his fingers warm as they laced through hers. His eyes caught hers, glinting with that familiar, mischievous spark. “Dinner was perfect,” he murmured, leaning in close, his voice dropping to a low tease. “But I think… dessert is still waiting.” 4 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
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I still remember that first call as if it were yesterday... I picked up only because I’d been told to expect a call, thinking it would be something casual, or maybe even a wrong number. But no destiny was on the other end of the line, disguised as a calm, charming voice. And thank goodness I didn’t do what I usually do and hit “ignore”! To the Man I Call Nii Anku 6 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
Our first outing? Drinks! Simple. Effortless. We laughed, we talked, and we just clicked, like long-lost WiFi. The man had charm, wit, and a comforting energy, like the human version of a weighted blanket. Not long after, he invited me over for dinner. Not out, mind you, because this man could cook. From scratch! I was halfway through my plate thinking, “Wait... this isn’t Indomie?” Lol. I was thoroughly impressed. That meal lives rent-free in my memory, not just for the flavour, but for the effort. He prepared every dish himself, with the seriousness of a MasterChef finalist. I knew then: this man wasn’t playing. The next visit was to my house. And from the moment he walked in, I thought, “Well, this feels suspiciously... right.” And it still does. What started as occasional check-ins quickly became a daily ritual, every evening at 5:30 p.m. Not 5:31. Not 5:45. Five-thirty on the dot, rain or shine. His consistency was magnetic. And slightly scary... in the best possible way. I thought, “This man treats time like it owes him money.” A true gentleman with a working relationship with clocks. God bless punctuality. One day, he invited me to a party, but first, we stopped by his place to meet his sister, who had just arrived from Kumasi. Sounds casual, right? I get there, and boom — two sisters waiting! Nana Oseitu and Ms. Ara welcomed me with warmth that wrapped around me like a hug. Then they turned to him and said, “She looks like us!” And I thought, “Hmmm... maybe I do?” Fast forward... I’m now a proud member of their large and wonderful family. And when I say large, I mean “you-need-aWhatsApp-group-just-for-birthdayreminders” large. Now I would like to tell you about the man I often call Nii Anku. He is a man of many things. A quiet force, a constant presence, a man of deep thought and even deeper values. He isn’t just risk-tolerant, he’s riskdevoted. While I’m still there, carefully weighing pros and cons, Ellis is already halfway through the risk, helmet strapped on, whispering a prayer, and charging forward. But through him, I have learned. I have learned that sometimes you have to take a leap of faith. I have learned to trust my instincts and to act with boldness. And to read the terms and conditions first. Ellis is the kind of man who exudes calm like a scented candle. He is thoughtful, deeply empathetic and grounded. He’s like the human version of a very well-rooted baobab tree rooted in grace and wisdom. And his humour? That sneaky, “Did he just say that?” kind... it brings light into our everyday lives. He’s loyal, the kind of man who will walk into fire for those he loves... and then apologise to the fire for the inconvenience. He understands silence better than most people understand words, and somehow always shows up with precisely the kind of support you didn’t even know you needed. He always seems to know when I need that quiet kind of support. Of course, no superhero is without a few quirks. He can overanalyse decisions as though they’re peace treaties. And yes, when he wants to keep the peace, he’ll avoid difficult conversations. (But we’re working on that.) One awkward conversation at a time. Yet through those imperfections, our relationship has deepened, and our love has found its rhythm. The Birthday Journal 7 E L L I S AT 6 0
We’ve learned to meet each other halfway... with grace, understanding, and humour. Choosing each other daily means embracing both sunshine and shadow. And honestly, that’s where the magic is. Professionally, this man is a giant in a lab coat. As a clinical embryologist, he is meticulous, dedicated, and deeply compassionate. He approaches his work like an artist. Instead of a brush, he uses science to paint hope onto the canvas of people’s lives. When he talks about embryos and IVF, his eyes light up as if someone had just told him Arsenal had won the league. (very soon). And when a treatment works or when someone becomes a parent, the joy radiates from their soul. This isn’t a job to him. It’s his ministry. He dreams of mentoring young embryologists, revolutionising fertility science, and leaving behind not just a legacy, but a blueprint for excellence and humanity in his field. One of his proudest moments? Being part of the team that pioneered IVF success at Provita Hospital in Tema. That’s not just history, that’s heritage. At home, Nii Anku is the softest soul but with the firmest values. He loves a quiet life. A true introvert with VIP membership. Me? Nope! I light up a room. He dims the lights for ambience, but somehow...it works. Perfectly! He loves cooking... experimental, creative, and sometimes the dish names are ambitious. I once asked him what he was making, and he said, “Spicy continental fusion.” It was jollof and grilled chicken. But I let him have his moment. Weekends are sacred, filled with watching Arsenal matches and action movies, culinary experiments and family bonding. Family, to him, isn’t just important, it’s everything. He carves out time, creates space, and never lets work overshadow love. He shows up emotionally, physically, financially, and all that comes with it. So when history looks at Ellis Nii Anku Fleischer-Djoleto, I hope it sees a man who brought life not only to families, but also back into the hearts of those he touched. A man who made science human. A man who built a legacy not just of procedures and results, but of compassion, laughter and love. If he inspires even one person to walk in his footsteps, his story will echo for generations. Today, we celebrate not just your age, but the incredible man you are. My best friend, my partner, my strength, and my forever love. Every day with you has been a blessing. Every year has only deepened my love and admiration. You’ve filled our lives with wisdom, laughter, and unwavering devotion. Your kindness, integrity, and warmth have touched everyone who knows you, but especially me. May this 60th year bring joy, impact, a few more Arsenal wins, daring new recipes, and the peace of knowing that you are deeply, endlessly, and delightfully loved. Lots of Love, Maamepanyin 8 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
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I want to wish our dad a very happy birthday and many more years. Sixty years is an incredible and unfathomable achievement that we all strive to reach one day. Just from the stories I’ve heard over the years from others, it’s clear that you have not only made an impact in our lives but also in the lives of many others with your selflessness. I love you so much and can’t wait to continue celebrating many more years with you. Happy Birthday! Sixty is a wonderful milestone to reach, and you have entered it with wisdom, grace, and great respect from all who know you. Throughout my life, you have been a figure I can always rely on and have always been there through my happiest moments and some of my toughest. I am forever grateful for the love you have shown; though from afar, it has felt as though it were always close by. Growing up, you instilled a strong sense of independence and maturity that has helped shape me into the woman I am today. I have, and will always, cherish the times we spend together because you always make me laugh. Your relentless sense of humor means you are physically incapable of taking anything seriously. From this, I have learned not to take life too seriously, and even in times that are particularly challenging, there is always a reason to smile. I wish you a year filled with happiness and joy, and may the years to come be just as fulfilling as those that have gone by. I love you very much, and I wish you a very happy birthday. I just want to say how lucky I am to be your daughter. You’re the funniest, kindest, goofiest, and most amazing dad ever. You always make me laugh with your weird jokes, funny faces, and random sound effects. But you're also strong and firm when you need to be, like a superhero in dad mode. Thank you for being the one I can always count on — for your hugs when I’m sad, your high-fives when I do something awesome, and your pep talks when I need to try again. You believe in me even when I doubt myself, and that means more than you know. I hope today brings you everything you love: food, laughter, family, and maybe even a nap (because you’ve earned it at your age . I’ll always be your little girl, no matter how tall I get. Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you more than chocolate... and that’s saying A LOT. Love always from your proud and lucky daughter Happy Birthday, Daddy, Elsie Mimi Stefan Myra Happy 60th birthday, Daddy. I hope you have a good one. Although our memories together feel limited, one thing I’ll always recognize and appreciate is your ability to take the seriousness out of any situation and make us laugh. One of my earliest and funniest memories was when I was about 5 years old. Elsie and I would suck our thumbs constantly, and you and Mummy tried everything to get us to stop. Nothing worked— until one night. We went to sleep, and when we woke up, there was something brown on our thumbs. Confused, we asked what it was, and you told us that while we were sleeping, you went to the back of the garden, collected cat poo, and rubbed it on our thumbs. Disgusted and confused, we burst into tears, asking why and begging you to rub it off. To this day, I still don’t know if it was really poo, but what I do know is that it was the very last time we sucked our thumbs! I love how you’re always there for us whenever we need to talk—whether it’s about school, life, or just for a bit of advice. No matter what, you’re always ready to listen and support us, and that means a lot. I love and miss you so much, and I hope this year brings you endless joy, laughter, and blessings. You truly deserve the happiest 60th birthday. Lots of love Mimi 10 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
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Wow! Before I met him, I knew him! You might wonder what I mean by that… Well, well! Maamepayin had literally given me daily updates about this interesting, calm professional who was wooing her and making her laugh so much. I kept saying, “Why wait, my sister? Get on with it — that’s the only way you’ll know if he’s the one.” A good cook that he is, Francis (my hubby), Yaako (Maamepayin’s BFF), and I were invited for a meal at his residence — and we just hit it off like a house on fire! He was exactly what I’d envisaged: funny yet serious-minded, focused yet relaxed, mature yet playful — and, more importantly, the kind of man I had wished for my sister. It’s hard to pick just one memorable moment — too many to count! Ellis is a perfectionist, and the two of us are alike in many ways. We always laugh about how we could never be a couple! I remember, on Ellis and Maamepayin’s wedding day, when all the guests were enjoying themselves, there were some behind-the-scenes delays that got him worked up. And who had to take the brunt of his stress? Moi. The pressure was on, so I gave him a piece of my mind — which wasn’t very pleasant. But guess what? Not long after, he cracked a joke to lighten the mood, and we both burst out laughing. Maamepayin looked at us like, “Are these two even serious?” I so love Ellis. He’s a good man. He could honestly pass for a comedian! He’s hilarious — but you’d better not believe everything he says at face value… He’ll tell a joke with such a straight face that you’d think he was dead serious, while everyone else is in stitches. If I had to use one word to sum up my bond with Ellis, it would be: God-sent! I met Ellis when he started dating Maame about 13 years ago, and we hit it off immediately. We had so much in common — shared London experiences, similar personalities — the connection was instant. And since my opinion mattered to Asor, I took that role seriously! We’ve made countless memories over the years — the good, the bad, and the unforgettable. Let’s just say we’ve had some great times together… though our wives are reading, so I’ll stop there! What always stands out is Ellis’s sharp wit. The things that come out of his mouth can amuse and shock you in equal measure. He’s a great chap through and through. If I had to sum up our bond in one word, it would be brother. These days, we’re basically eating from the same pot. Ellis, happy 60th, brother. Wishing you good health, prosperity, and a great marriage. Francis Poku I first met Ellis as a college freshman at the only University Hall of KNUST. We were eager, ambitious young men! One standout memory: Ellis got me to perform on GBC (GTV) — supporting a poet, even though we were science students! Funny trait? Ask him about “KKM.” One word for our bond: “JEMIN” — our squad of loyal, funny, ambitious friends. Lizo, best wishes as we climb to the sixth floor. Wishing you many more healthy years, and congratulations! Joe Brewoo He’s frank, good-hearted, reliable, generous, and more. He’s been a pillar in the lives of our entire family — and anyone close to us. I couldn’t have wished for anyone better. Happy Diamond Jubilee, Nii, Ellis, E, Nii-An!!! The big 6-0 is no small feat — all by the grace of God. May you be blessed with good health, peace of mind, and may the work of your hands continue to be fruitful.Remember, you’re not getting old — you’re just upgrading to a classic model. Love always!!! Maria Awuraba Poku 12 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
Everyone needs an uncle like you, Uncle Nii Anku! Why? Because you have such a calming, stress-relieving presence, and whenever we spend time with you, we leave with a clearer mind. Life can throw all kinds of obstacles in our way, and in those times we all need an uncle to give good advice, to bail us out every now and then, or one just to have great conversations and good laughs with. That’s who you are to us — our forever kind, thoughtful, and fun Uncle Nii Anku. I have so many fond memories of you from my childhood. You were the cool uncle every teenager dreams of. All of my Aburi Girls friends knew my Uncle Ellis, and many still remember you. You drove me up those Aburi mountains to boarding school and back down again several times. You always showed up on visiting days, and those visits were always the highlight of my term. My friends and I eagerly looked forward to seeing you because you always brought the things every child needs in boarding school: delicious food, sweets, and pocket money. Kwaw was excited to meet you when we first got married because he had heard so much about you from me. He quickly discovered for himself how wonderful and witty you are. Now that you’re a grand-uncle, it brings me so much joy to see how much my children adore you. They love hanging around you, laughing at your jokes, and soaking in the warmth of your engaging personality. You truly have a gift for connecting with all generations, and your playful, teasing nature has made every moment with you unforgettable. We still can’t figure out when you’re joking or serious because you tease us with that straight face of yours, and it keeps us on our toes and laughing every time! You and Aunty Asor have always been so sweet and warm, and we know that whenever we’re in Accra, we’re welcome to visit and are guaranteed to have a great time. Your home is a place of love and laughter, and we cherish that deeply. All our friends who have met you keep asking about you because of your lasting impression on everyone. Kwaw and I appreciate how we can always count on you for wisdom and guidance. You generously share your experiences from work and life whenever we ask, and you’re always genuinely interested in what we’re up to and how we’re doing. That care and attentiveness mean so much to us. Happy 60th Birthday, Uncle Nii Anku! We are deeply thankful to God for blessing us with an incredible uncle like you. We pray that the Lord will bless you with many I met Ellis years ago, and we quickly became good friends — then brothers. Ellis knew everything about me, and I knew everything about him. We planned and executed countless projects — not for profit, just for the love of it. We’d make airport runs to clear company goods, hang out at the beach, and go wherever life took us. Someone once called us “partners in crime,” but I assure you, we committed no crimes! Lizo has the perfect sense of humour. The best part? People often take his jokes seriously — and I just add more seriousness to them! And for the record, when Lizo says “look down,” trust me — it means look up for the best results. I was never shaken by his pranks. Birds of the same feathers… we never rehearsed anything. We just flowed. A standout memory? There was a time we needed to follow and correct a brother, but we decided to let it go. That moment showed our unity and loyalty to our childhood friends. We’ve always stood together. We cannot be separated in interest or divided in purpose. That’s who we are — united till the end. One of Ellis’s funniest traits? He is full of jokes — and never laughs when he’s joking! If I had to sum up our bond in a single thought: Ellis won’t walk behind me — I might not lead. He won’t walk in front of me — I might not follow. He walks beside me — always. A true brother and a true friend. My wife Tina will always be happy to spend time with you. Lizo, you have always been my guide, my confidant, my brother. Friends may come and go, but siblings are forever. Happy 60th birthday! We celebrate you today and always. Tina and Panks more years filled with strength, joy, and good health. You are truly one of a kind, and we celebrate you today and always. With much love and gratitude, Dzifa, Kwaw, Effie, Sedem, Adwoa & Jojo The Birthday Journal 13 E L L I S AT 6 0
Uncle Nii Anku always seems serious — but anyone who knows him well knows that beneath that stern demeanor lies a heart full of love and care. His high standards and no-nonsense attitude made us all want to “get it right” when he was around. But beyond the discipline, we’ve gained so much more: invaluable lessons in self-discipline, financial wisdom, and thoughtful life planning — all from the little pockets of time spent with him. We’ve seen him evolve year after year into an even more amazing father, uncle, granduncle, and uncle-in-law. His growth, his consistency, and his quiet strength have left a deep impression on all of us. The thought of eating Uncle Nii Anku’s homemade food — first at his home in Trassacco, and more recently in his beautiful new home — brings on waves of warm, nostalgic memories. Those meals weren’t just delicious; they were full of love, laughter, and quiet moments of wisdom. One of the kids said it best: “When I first met him, I thought he would be very nice. And he’s the coolest granduncle! He’s handsome, he’s nice, and good.” The others nodded with big smiles, and we all knew just how true those words were. We are truly blessed to have Uncle Nii Anku in our lives. We pray for continued health, joy, and long life for him. We love you so much, Uncle — With all our hearts, From the Woyomes. To the World’s Greatest Uncle, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! May your special day be as marvellous as you are. Cheers to another year around the sun, BIG MAN! We’re so proud and grateful to call you our uncle. Having not just one, but two father figures in our lives is a blessing we don’t take for granted. We love you deeply, Uncle — thank you for always being there for us with your strength, wisdom, and heart. May God bless you and protect you for the rest of your life. With all our love, Derrick Fleischer Jesse Nii Oto Fleischer Jason Nii Doodu Fleischer Leonard Nii Anku Fleischer Although Ellis and I are cousins, we didn’t have much interaction during our early years. It wasn’t until the passing of his older brother that we truly connected on a deeper level. From that moment on, we naturally slipped into a big brother–little brother dynamic. My initial impression of Ellis? Grounded, quietly confident, and incredibly warmhearted. One of the most memorable moments with him happened during a particularly difficult time for our family. We were both grieving deeply, yet Ellis, in his special way, brought light into the room. He cracked a joke so unexpectedly that we all burst out laughing through our tears. That’s Ellis — bringing healing and hope even in the darkest times. What always makes me smile? His sharp wit and the way he finds humour in any situation. I often call him “Papa Anago – the Business Man” because of his hilarious habit of spotting business opportunities everywhere — even in the most mundane or outrageous places! His entrepreneurial spirit is matched only by his ability to turn any gathering into a comedy club. If I had to sum up our bond in one word, it would be Brotherhood. Though we’re cousins, our relationship has grown into something far more meaningful — a genuine brotherhood rooted in loyalty, laughter, and deep respect. Happy, happy 60th birthday to my dear brother, Ellis! May this milestone remind you of all you’ve accomplished and the many lives you’ve touched — mine included. As we always joke, you’re officially catching up with our mothers in age! May God bless you with many more healthy, prosperous, and laughter-filled years ahead. You deserve every good thing life has to offer. (And yes, our shared secret remains safe with me!) Ludí Reimmer 14 The Birthday Journal LOYA L
I met Ellis when he paidMaamepayin a visit at her residence. He had a calm and warm disposition, which gave me some assurance that he would be right for my daughter. There are so many memorable moments, but one that stands out is when I had to be rushed to the hospital for a sudden medical condition. The urgency, love, and care he exhibited will never leave my memory. He truly is a gem. Ellis is generally funny and always sharing jokes. He makes living with him so easy. It’s interesting when he bumps into me and says, “Aii Maa, we live in this house but I haven’t seen you in three days.” Clearly not the actual situation. Once he is around and not busy with work, laughter echoes through the house — and I love that about him. If I could use one word to describe our bond, it would be: GOOD. Ellis is a good man. He is a son, not a son-in-law. His love for family is admirable, and I’m so thankful to God that he’s part of ours. My birthday wish for Ellis is that God grants him many more years filled with good health, love, and expanded territories. Happy Birthday, Ellis!!! Angelina Anna Grant (mum-in-law) The Birthday Journal 15 E L L I S AT 6 0
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tty Quietly hilarious, with a gift for clever humour and well-timed pranks. Ellis’ joke went off even before John could say “Jack,” and try as much as John tried to hold the laughter, he couldn’t. The laughter started from the base of his stomach, and then built up to his chest, before he knew it, it was in his cheeks and he held it in there for a while, his cheeks looking like two huge balloons, but before he knew it, he exploded in laughter. They were in their Biological Science class, and the lecturer’s head popped up as soon as John roared with laughter. There was no way to hide his head. Meanwhile, Ellis, who had himself said the joke, sat staring straight at the lecturer, with no expression whatsoever on his face. John wondered how he managed it. “John Wallington, please leave my class,” the lecturer ordered. It wasn’t fair but John packed his books and left the class, tears from his laughter still streaming down his cheeks. The Birthday Journal 17 E L L I S AT 6 0
Our Brother, Our Blessing - Witty Ellis, how do you sum up a man like you — a.k.a. Nii Anku, a.k.a. Lizo, a.k.a. the family prankster, part-time chef, full-time abusuapanyin, and all-around legend? You don’t. From childhood mischief to life-saving advice, latenight hospital visits, and showing up whenever we’ve needed you — you’ve been more than a brother. You’ve been a second dad, a steady guide, and our resident problem-solver. We’ve seen you stand in the gap countless times, putting family first without hesitation, and leading by example in ways that have shaped us all. Otobea, the firstborn and keeper of stories, starts us off strong. I remember my adorable baby brother who was born with fine hair. One of the aunties, while bathing and “moulding” his head (as is customarily done), used extremely hot water, leaving a burn on his head. Auntie A went into hiding out of fear when Dad came to see his handsome baby boy. She was worried because she knew our dad did not believe in some of those traditions. After four daughters, our parents doted on their first two boys, Nii Oto (of blessed memory) and little Nii Anku. I vividly remember them one Christmas in the suits Daa had custom-made for them, albeit a bit oversized. I left Ghana when Ellis was almost 10. Fast forward about 20 years and beyond, Ellis played pivotal roles in helping my three children assimilate to Ghana on their first visits. Being at Uncle Nii Anku’s allowed Nana a little freedom to go out with Kwabea and other friends. (You can imagine Emaa was not going to allow them to leave the house after dark for any reason!) Maame brought friends from the U.S. His place was where they met with their cousins. I got to hear my baby brother was now a master chef, cooking them some of their favourite meals. My youngest son Kwofe and his friend Ryan went to stay with Uncle Nii Anku at his place in Tema for a month while working at S.O.S. as part of their high school senior project. (A whole month with two American teenagers invading your space!) I will forever be grateful to Ellis for taking responsibility not only for his nephew but also for his friend. It was a wonderful experience for them. He always made sure they were able to get wherever they needed to be while in Ghana. Ellis and some other family members visited us in St. Louis. My hubby, Colie, and I got to experience the cooking skills we had heard so much about. It was such a wonderful time. His love for family is very evident in how his place is always a destination, whether for family visiting from abroad or from Kumasi. Those in Accra are always enjoying their hospitality. On family visits to Ghana, Ellis and his lovely and welcoming wife, Asor, have hosted us to some great dinners. We are all grateful for Nii Anku’s abusuapanyin role. He manages to find time in his busy professional life to represent us at all extended family functions. Colie and I are very proud of all your accomplishments, bringing joy to so many families by making it possible for them to realise their hopes and dreams of having children. On this, your 60th birthday, we pray for God’s continuous blessings. Happy Birthday to my dear brother Ellis. Eva Otobea Coleman 18 The Birthday Journal W I T T Y
Then Nana chimes in, ever nurturing and full of sass. Nii Anku, affectionately known to me as Anku Bɛdɛɛ, is the sixth child of our parents, fourth in line after me. From the very beginning, I have naturally played a motherly role in his life. Our bond has always been special. I vividly remember visiting him during his boarding school days at St. Martin’s Secondary School in Adoagyiri, Nsawam. At the time, I had moved to Accra from Kumasi, and I made it a point to check on him regularly. My visits were never complete without plenty of food in tow, which, as you can imagine, thrilled not just Anku but his friends too. This tradition continued even when he later moved to Aggrey Memorial Secondary School in Cape Coast. From such humble beginnings, look at how far the Lord has brought us. Thank you, Jesus. The closeness among the eight of us siblings often leaves people amazed. Many wonder how such a large family can share such a deep bond. But I can say without hesitation that it is the result of the love, values, and foundation laid by our late, beloved parents. It is truly their doing. As a child, my brother was the quiet type, calm and observant. But with time, he blossomed into an outspoken and vibrant personality. He can be incredibly annoying, often playing pranks on all of us. If you’re not sharp, you might just fall for one of his clever antics. One of our recurring “rituals” is me calling him multiple times. He often delays picking up, convinced I’m calling to ask for money. And when he finally answers or calls me back, I playfully tease, “You think I need money, right?” Then I drop my favourite quote: “Money is just paper, designed by the government mainly for spending, okay?” And without missing a beat, he responds with his classic, “Gerrout,” and we both burst into laughter. But in his sweetness, he’ll always follow through. He sends me money regardless. Whether it’s for a hospital visit, a monthly allowance, or anything else I ask for, he never hesitates. That’s the kind of heart he has — generous, caring, and deeply kind. He’s more than a brother. He’s a father figure to us all. He’s loving, wise, and always ready with sound advice. He has a way of making people feel seen, valued, and uplifted. I count myself especially blessed to be your sister, your only Nana. Thank you, Anku, for always being there for me. You are truly the best brother anyone could ever wish for. As you celebrate your 60th birthday, my prayer is that your days be filled with laughter, joy, and everything your heart desires. Father God, thank you for blessing Nii Anku with long life and good health. Perfect all that concerns him, his family, and his future. Happy 60th, my dear brother. I love you always. Mrs. Victoria Akaba (Nana) The Birthday Journal 19 E L L I S AT 6 0
We first met Ellis at Poynton about two years ago. We thought he was a very nice, humble, and noble man. My wife and I took an instant liking to him — even after he beat us at Scrabble, not once! (Lol.) One of our most memorable experiences with Ellis was during a trip to Knowsley Safari Park in Cheshire with Maame. As we drove through, a mischievous baboon climbed onto the roof of our car, and Ellis suddenly went unusually quiet! Things got even more intense when a majestic pack of lions crossed the road right in front of us — and there they were, Ellis and Maame, frozen in silence, melted into their seats. Every moment shared with Ellis has been filled with fun and laughter. He is a true fountain of knowledge, and we absolutely love him and his unwavering passion for helping others. His heart, wisdom, and spirit make every encounter unforgettable. What always brings a smile? His smile and wink when winning a game of Scrabble or wanting to express a funny opinion. If we had to use one word each to sum up our bond with Ellis: Noble – from John. Integrity – from Babs. I met Ellis way back in September 1986 — our very first day of lectures in the Biological Science class. He seemed like such a cool dude. But I got it all wrong — he’s the embodiment of mischief. There are countless memories with Ellis, but one that stands out was the day I got kicked out of a lecture. He had cracked a silly joke and somehow managed to keep a straight face. I couldn’t hold it in and burst out laughing. I got sacked from the class while he sat there like nothing happened! One thing about Ellis that always brings a smile to my face: he epitomises fun. There’s never a dull moment with him. Just ask him how he earned all those nicknames KKM, Jegede, Alabi Shokoya, and Gregory! Because he stays true to his word and came through for us when it truly mattered. Ellis, Happy 60th. You are someone we admire and truly love. John & Babs Wallington I met Ellis in the 90s through my husband Nap, and my first impression was — Chai, what a sweet soul! One of my most memorable experiences with him was during my first pregnancy at Provita. He had to examine me, and hahaha… he ran off ! He couldn’t bear the sight of his best buddy’s wife’s nude scenes. What always brings a smile to my face is his seriousness right after dropping a really funny tale. My God — that straight face of his would definitely freak you out with a smile. If I had to use one word to sum up my bond with Ellis, it would be selfless. He always goes the extra mile to make sure people around him are safe. He’s always been there for me and my kids. My birthday wish for Ellis? May the Lord grant him all that he wishes for himself — and more — in good health. Amen. Lynda Dede Graham Happy 60th Birthday to Uncle Nii Anku! Do you remember all the amazing fun we had back in 2001? My buddy Ryan and I had travelled to Ghana to do our senior service project at SOS Tema School, and Uncle E, as we called him, very kindly agreed to host us. Wow — what an awesome experience! This was my very first time travelling out of the country, and Uncle E made sure that every aspect of our trip was perfect. We had some really fun adventures… ones we won’t mention here, but that still get us laughing whenever we remember them! Cheers to you, Uncle Nii Anku! Here’s to more laughter, more adventures, and more unforgettable memories ahead. Kwofe Coleman If I had to choose one word to describe our bond, it would be reliable. Nii Anku is quick-witted and always offers alternatives that shape your decisionmaking. He’s someone you can always count on. My birthday wish for Ellis: This guy deserves the best of everything. I wish him all the desires of his heart. May he be blessed beyond measure. Nap. Kwesi Graham 20 The Birthday Journal W I T T Y
I met Ellis for the first time at university (KNUST). We weren’t that close then, but even from a distance, he struck me as a bit shy and very respectful. There are lots of good memories, but the one that stands out is watching his favourite football club, Arsenal, lose to the Mighty Liverpool! That was priceless. What always brings a smile to my face is Ellis’s soul-touching humour. His jokes hit the right spot, and he’s just a lovely person to hang out with. The way he welcomes people — it’s warm and genuine, and always makes you feel at ease. If I had to sum up my bond with Ellis in one word, it would be humility. My birthday wish for Ellis? Long life and prosperity, my brother. Ernest Poku Freddy: I first met Ellis at my office and thought he was a real gentleman. Donna: I first met Ellis at the Mirror Ball at Golden Tulip, where Maame introduced him to me. My first impressions were that he had a very funny sense of humour and was an interesting and affable gentleman. Freddy: A memorable experience was visiting Ellis and Maame at their home to watch a football match — we’re all Arsenal fans. I was treated to a sumptuous buffet and was told Ellis had cooked it. He’s an amazing cook. Donna: I remember sitting with Ellis at a party in Aburi, listening to him talk about his research and vision for healthcare. It struck a chord with me — he genuinely cares about delivering the best service and empowering others to achieve consistent excellence. He’s super intelligent with a massive heart. His life reflects his authentic desire to make a difference in people’s lives. Freddy: One funny trait that always gets me is how Ellis delivers very edgy or racy jokes with a straight face. If you don’t know him well, you’ll be baffled trying to figure out how to respond. Donna: One of the funniest quirks about Ellis is how someone so intelligent and gentlemanly can support such an awful team like Arsenal! It really cracks me up. He also has such a dry sense of humour — which I absolutely love. Freddy: If I had to pick one word for our bond, it would be intriguing. He’s cool, calm, but has a crazy sense of humour. Donna: My word would be unique. Ellis is the perfect mix of all things bright and beautiful, with a touch of introversion, calm, wisdom, and fun-loving humour. He’s deeply reliable and a constant presence in the lives of those he treasures. He’s solution-oriented and a truly delightful friend. We wish the very best for Ellis today and always — deep happiness and fulfilment, great health and prosperity. May his days be filled with joy, laughter, and the abundance of God’s love and favour towards him and his beautiful family always. Happy 60th birthday, Ellis! Freddy & Donna Apeagyei There are far too many memorable experiences I’ve shared with Ellis to recount, but they always come with happy endings. His sense of humour is unique — he always has something to say to cheer you up when you’re down and lift you when the world seems against you. If I could sum up our bond in a few words, it would be love and respect — we share an unbreakable family bond. Wishing you love, health, happiness, and that you never lose that sense of humour. Well done, trailblazer! Irene Anin I first met Ellis around 1983 or 1984. One memorable experience we shared was chasing the lovely ladies in green uniform on the Green Hill of Aggrey… lol. As for a funny or quirky trait, not much I can say — he was too gentle to be funny. I stand to be corrected though… lol! If I had to use one word to sum up our bond, it would be focus. Despite his seemingly frivolous lifestyle, he was truly a bookworm. My birthday wish for Ellis is to have the best of life in all his endeavours. May the sky be the limit for him. I declare a groundbreaking, career-breaking, and territory-breaking career for him as he hits the 6th floor, in the name of Jesus. I leave him with the scripture Isaiah 43:19. Happy Birthday, brethren. Pastor Ato Ashun The Birthday Journal 21 E L L I S AT 6 0
I don’t remember exactly when I first met Ellis — maybe about 10 years ago. But over the last 3–4 years, we’ve become close, and he’s been like a big brother to me. He’s always willing and ready to go the extra mile for you. He’s a fantastic guy. One memorable experience we shared was just over a year ago in Amsterdam. We spontaneously decided to take a day trip to Germany — just to go eat fufu! Ellis has this funny, quirky trait where he can instantly make up a story about anything and everything — and somehow it will always make you laugh. If I had to choose one word to sum up our bond, it would be possibility. Where Ellis is concerned, everything feels possible. My birthday wish for him is that the Good Lord continues to bless him with good health and wisdom — and that he will cross 80 years with ease. Dr. James Boachie We first met in 1994 — back then, Ellis was Dr. Joe Mainoo’s right-hand man. One memorable experience we shared was travelling together to Salt Lake City, Utah. Visiting Temple Square, the headquarters of the LDS Church, was a standout moment. Ellis has a hilarious ability to make his jokes sound so real — you’ll be completely amazed before realising he’s pulling your leg. If I had to sum up our bond in one word, it would be achiever. He’s always encouraging others to do more and has an incredible eye for spotting potential in people. Wishing him everything that could ever bring a smile to his life. Benjamin Boi-Doku I first met Ellis in 1997, and my initial impression was that he was a serious guy who had most of his life planned down to the minute — someone who seemed to have it all figured out. But behind that man with a plan is someone who knows how to laugh and lighten the mood. It’s hard to choose just one memorable experience because any time spent with him turns into a special moment — whether it’s a family gathering, a casual chat, or simply being in his lively company. One funny trait of Ellis that always makes me smile is his ability to turn any conversation into a joke, no matter how serious. If I had to sum up my bond with Ellis in one word, it would be respect. As my husband’s elder brother, he has been a steady presence, and our bond is built on the groundedness and respect he brings to the family. I wish you good health, joy, and the kind of peace that comes from a life well-lived. You have a whole village that loves you, and I hope you feel all that love returned to you today and always. Happy 60th, Ellis, and may God’s favour follow you into this next chapter. Florence Fleischer Djoleto (sis-in-law) I first met Ellis in the year 2000, when he was introduced to me as Dr. Ellis. My very first impression was, “Hmmmm… handsome man, very pleasant, warm, and easy to speak and interact with.” From that moment, he stood out as someone genuine and approachable. One memory that will always stay with me happened during a challenging period in 2018. At the time, the only thing that could calm my nerves was eating gari. Ellis would call and simply say, “Gari,” and somehow, that one word carried comfort, understanding, and even a bit of humor. Ellis has so many jokes that bring a smile to my face, but one that always stands out is his banter with the Ghana police — quick, witty, and endlessly entertaining. If I had to sum up our bond, it would be in heartfelt gratitude. Thank you, Ellis, for being such an amazing friend. You’ve made so many of my days truly unforgettable. In my most challenging days, months, and years, you were always there to support me. Even when I felt frustrated with life’s challenges, you’d call and say, “Nana, hmmm… what if this had happened in your old age?” That humor, mixed with wisdom, was always just what I needed. Happy Birthday, Ellis. I celebrate you as an incredible person. I wish you a life full of joy, happiness, good health, and continuous prosperity. Nana Boakye 22 The Birthday Journal W I T T Y
I first met Ellis back in 1983 at Aggrey Memorial School in 6th form. He was a very tiny boy — and very, very jovial. We were in the same house and prefects’ dormitory, and that’s when I really got to know him. One unforgettable memory? Ellis would head to the kitchen, scoop out some ash from the coal pot in the dining hall, mix it with toothpaste, and — voilà! — we suddenly had a makeshift shaving cream. What I’ll always associate with Ellis is that wide smile and constant stream of jokes. He’s always happy and spreading that joy wherever he goes. If I had to sum up our bond in one word: Awesome. Because that’s exactly what it’s been like knowing him all these years. Happy birthday, Ellis. May this day bring you the kind of joy you so generously give to everyone else. I pray that God richly blesses you in everything you do. Kwabena Darko The Aidoo family met Uncle Ellis several years ago. A memorable experience was when Uncle Ellis visited and stayed over at our home in London. We cooked, ate, and had fun just chatting and sharing jokes. His wonderful sense of humour always brings a smile to my face. You can bet on him to say something funny when it’s least expected. One word to sum up our bond: Genuine. May God grant him many more happy years in health and wealth, and may all the desires of his heart be met in Jesus’s name. Selasi Aidoo Too long ago to remember when we first met, but I do remember thinking he seemed very serious — how very wrong! So many memories come to mind, but one comedy encounter will always stand out. We had gone to a restaurant for lunch, and the waitress asked if he would like fish, chicken, or beef stew. He asked for fish — they didn’t have it. Then beef — they didn’t have it. Finally chicken — they also didn’t have it. He then asked, “So you’re asking me to order something you don’t actually have?” She politely confirmed this without a trace of irony, but his long, bemused stare and huge bellowing laugh after she left will live with me forever. A funny and quirky trait of Ellis’s is his deadpan humour, delivered with the straightest of faces, always followed by a quiet, infectious smile. If I could sum up our bond in one phrase, it would be: the provider of eternal optimism… for a myriad of reasons. My birthday wish for you, Ellis, is that you never lose the ability to encourage and inspire — it is the rarest of things. Sheba & Petr Gilbert has known Ellis since their KNUST days, but I first met him in the year 2000 when we moved into Jogis Estates from Koforidua — and I’ve loved him since. There are too many memorable moments to count, but our poolside escapades have always stood out. If you know, you know! His sense of humour is unmatched. He’ll crack an extremely funny joke with a straight face while the rest of us are in uncontrollable stitches. If we had to sum up our bond with Ellis in one word, it would be brother — simply put. Ellis, we thank God for your life and all that you mean to us. Age in grace, love, and wisdom. Happy 60th birthday! Gilbert & Anna Buckle The Birthday Journal 23 E L L I S AT 6 0
Dedicated Committed to excellence and integrity Although they have been sitting in their car, parked just near the Korle-Bu gate for almost four hours, Ellis shows no sign of impatience, something that Mary is grateful for. He is not obliged to help her on this mission, but, in true dedicated Ellis style, he has foregone his day off to assist her. In fact, he has been largely responsible for all the background work that has brought them this far. Suddenly, without warning, Ellis gets out hurriedly as he exclaims, “I see her!” “Where?” Mary whispers excitedly, scanning through the crowd. “There! Look near the gate.” Sure enough, at the entrance is the familiar gait of their suspect nurse, dressed in a white uniform and in a hurry to begin her shift. 24 The Birthday Journal D E D I C AT E D
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